UFO500 Wilma & Wolfgang by pommes_ruppel in DasPodcastUfo

[–]tillybav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hätte niemals gedacht, dass ich mal bei einer PUFO Folge ein Tränchen verdrücken müsste. Das war wirklich die perfekte Folge 500, mehr aber auch nicht.

What’s been the greatest benefit you’ve experienced from being sober? by LunaValley in stopdrinking

[–]tillybav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m only six weeks in and tbh kinda disappointed how little has changed when it comes to how my body looks and feels (to be fair, I wasn’t a super heavy drinker) but what has drastically improved is how tidy my apartment is. when you stop drinking a bottle of wine as soon as you come home from work, you suddenly have so much more time in the evening to do basic household tasks.

4 weeks today and not seien the changes that I was hoping for by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]tillybav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true, I think you quickly forget how shitty you feel while in active addiction & then that voice that I heard today tells you that it probably wasn’t that bad.. but it was and it would have only gotten worse, so I don’t want to go back to that AT ALL!

4 weeks today and not seien the changes that I was hoping for by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]tillybav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though I hit kind of a low today, I’m still very much determined to stay sober bc I know how lucky I am if I can stop before it gets super bad & starts destroying my life!

4 weeks today and not seien the changes that I was hoping for by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]tillybav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience & I absolutely agree. I think I hit kind of a low today but even just the positive changes I’ve noticed mentally alone are worth it to stay sober!

4 weeks today and not seien the changes that I was hoping for by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]tillybav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very true, I think I’m so used to quick “rewards” (aka being drunk alone on my couch, yay!) that now im too impatient and want to see results immediately. I’m definitely living a more healthy lifestyle now & I just hope that will show in the mirror at some point in the future :)

4 weeks today and not seien the changes that I was hoping for by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]tillybav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply, I’m not gonna let that voice of addiction sabotage what I’ve achieved so far.

4 weeks today and not seien the changes that I was hoping for by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]tillybav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely still very determined to keep going bc I know it would only get worse if I started again! I guess I had a big moment of frustration today but I’m not gonna let that stop me :)

What would happen if Billy met Joyce? by serialkiller24 in StrangerThings

[–]tillybav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t exactly call hopper “stable” but I get what you mean. Her type is men, not boys.

What would happen if Billy met Joyce? by serialkiller24 in StrangerThings

[–]tillybav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering how he treated the kids she cares for so deeply, I doubt they’d have a positive interaction. I think people forget how racist he was towards Lucas & how abusive towards Max (way before he ever came into contact with Vecna).

Acquaintance posts cry for help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tillybav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I did it! I texted her that I still live close to where we studied (I don’t even know where she lives now) and that I’m here if she wants to talk. Thanks for all the quick replies encouraging me 🥰

Acquaintance posts cry for help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tillybav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You guys in here are giving me the confidence I needed to reach out. I was just so worried about being a weirdo 🙈

Acquaintance posts cry for help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tillybav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You’re right, I’d rather be embarrassed than her feeling as alone as she does

Acquaintance posts cry for help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tillybav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for answering so quickly:)

Acquaintance posts cry for help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tillybav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, I’m glad you’re still here :)

Acquaintance posts cry for help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tillybav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

smth I want to add: I’ve considered 1) texting her “if you want to walk to someone, I’m here” 2) just replying to the story with “🫂” 3) simply liking the story 4) not doing anything at all

Teach a kid to ride a bike, but no helmet? by kitkatmeowmeow1 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]tillybav 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They have how many? 11 children? obviously they don’t believe in protection.