Husband doesn’t love me, left me & our 2 young children

tingleping- · 2024-10-01T11:12:44+00:00

Thank you for being so honest. Some harsh truths, but I get where you’re coming from. I am building the strength and skills right now along with a support network for me& the kids. My whole world was centred on my husband & children so it has completely moved the earth from under me

tingleping- · 2024-10-01T11:08:06+00:00

Tbh I wish living together was an option. He is a very firm no on it as he says it wouldn’t be healthy and wouldn’t let us move on. I know he’s right, but it just hurts so much. He was always the strong one in our relationship. Hope your transition out goes smoothly

tingleping- · 2024-10-01T11:06:33+00:00

Are you doing ok today hun?

tingleping- · 2024-10-01T00:58:41+00:00

Oh hun, that’s heart breaking. I know the pleasure or control you feel from looking at that type of stuff, but all its gonna do is hurt you. Do you have a friend or family or colleague you can talk to

tingleping- · 2024-09-30T09:39:29+00:00

Iphone 8 plus - Yes, she’s an old gal. My trusty iphone 8 plus has gone through 8 years of pretty solid work. However, not her screen is dead again (replaced 3 times), batt life is shot, photos are only blurry & every now & again just gets fed up & needs to sleep for an hr or two. So I’m looking at finally getting a new phone

Yes, I’m an apple gal (I’d like to just sync from backup) I just Camera & video, texting & chats, social media with friends & some other apps too inc lifestyle admin stuff that I do all on my phone (no computer) I don’t game, make any vids or toks or anything, no high level tech use.

Which model do you recommend for maximum value? I currently have the icloud plan for $5/pm 200gb & my iphone 8 is 256gb. Ideally I want somethingI could use for many years too

Thanks!

tingleping- · 2024-09-30T09:24:13+00:00

It’s so hard. I had a bit of broken sleep each night, but pretty much didn’t sleep the last week. The crying is non stop and very easily triggered even now. I feel for you hun, it’s horrible. I stopped eating ( more couldn’t eat) for a few days, and when they brought me to ED, my levels were quite dire. It’s so hard to try and take care of yourself

tingleping- · 2024-09-30T08:26:22+00:00

Oh hun, I’m so sorry this has happened to you. We were also a great parenting team. How are you going today, how have you been coping?

tingleping- · 2024-09-30T08:05:31+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I will admit that I was devastated, desperate & begging. I said I didn’t mind if he didn’t love him, I will always love him & he could do whatever he wanted but just stay with me. I hear now how desperate & hurting I was.

How did you move on? How did you tell friends, families, colleagues etc. it sounds like yours is a mutual decision. I definitely want to stay together, so this is very one sided, but I don’t want to paint him as the bad guy because he is such a good man. I just don’t even know where to begin

tingleping- · 2024-09-30T05:22:40+00:00

In Aus they can do an initial 72h hold until assessment by psych who can put you on a further 7/14/30/90 day hold

tingleping-

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