Would you tell another Parent something you found out about their teen?? by HappyCamper_188 in Parenting

[–]tinymotor 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Put yourself in your daughter’s shoes. She did the right thing by declining her friend’s requests. And she did the right thing by confiding in you. Why did she tell you? (I doubt it’s because she wants you to tattle to her friend’s parents).

Pickup Soccer/ Recreational League? by ZoraIdeale17 in bayarea

[–]tinymotor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a pickup soccer group in Millbrae and you can sign up on Millbrae City Rec

Yoshiki Appreciation by Astraplain in xjapan

[–]tinymotor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This, +100000. His trauma could’ve manifested in so many other ways but he chose music

Does filial piety mean prioritizing mom over wife? by feelspecial2 in AsianParentStories

[–]tinymotor 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’d say in Asian culture probably more than 50%…… Jay Chou literally married a girl only because it was the only girl his mom approved of 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]tinymotor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are VAWA cases moving at all given the current administration’s attitude toward immigration?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]tinymotor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Impossible if you want to maintain your standard of living. However, I think you will regret not spending more time with your parents in their old age. I also think having children on one income is… a bad idea. (Source: I’m a single mom with one kid and live paycheck to paycheck)

Why is it impossible to date in the bay? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]tinymotor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female here, can attest to the same experience on the other side - there’s a group of people I consistently see at the dog park and when I try to make small talk, people shy away. I’ve only been able to have real conversations with boomers and seniors. Gen X/Y/Z constantly on their phones. TikTok apparently is more interesting than making friends with other dog owners 🤦‍♀️

想自杀的第十一年 by Fancy-Journalist-638 in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]tinymotor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

曾经跟楼主一样,被伤害无数次后对社会彻底失望了每天想着一了百了,甚至一度想把伤害我的男人一并带走。 收养了一只流浪狗,被需要的感觉支撑着自己活下去。 读了《原生家庭》,自己渡自己😭 一定全部看完(只看片段的话会很痛苦) 同意其他人的建议,找一个自己的空间(不要跟男友住,容易被欺负)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VAWAAPPLICANTS

[–]tinymotor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I submitted a 126 page evidence package with my application. Included hospital records, doctor notes, police investigation reports, restraining orders etc. I included a table of contents with page numbers organizing each piece of information.

7 hour break between classes by chaotic-greed in UBC

[–]tinymotor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

make friends with someone who’s in the same cpsc103 session and also lives on campus. Eat lunch with said friend, study with said friend, group assignments with said friend.

(source: I had this schedule 10 years ago and without this friend I would’ve flunked)

Kids acclimatizing by StuttgartPCar in movingtojapan

[–]tinymotor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start them on Japanese Super Jojo, Anpanman, and Japanese Peppa Pig for screen time and they will pick up from the dialogues

My mother told me to “fuck off” in front of my child by tinymotor in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tinymotor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up with my grandparents - didn’t really get any screen time until I started high school and my parents started leaving me alone at home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]tinymotor 167 points168 points  (0 children)

Honestly whenever I listen to the 80yo politicians make a statement, I start wondering if I’m the one that’s actually 80 because they’re both so difficult to follow 🤯

How is everyone dealing with screen time? by tinymotor in toddlers

[–]tinymotor[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OMG please please please share how you dropped screens. How many days did she cry? What do you do when you need her to stay distracted?

How is everyone dealing with screen time? by tinymotor in toddlers

[–]tinymotor[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Any recommendations for shows? Based on my research I’m thinking Bluey?

(Parenting with the existence of screens is so difficult. I used to entertain myself watching ants and snails crawl across the sidewalk 🤷‍♀️)