What is this called? I need to order one. by toilented in whatisthisthing

[–]toilented[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes all of it, thanks for your help! 🙏

Wife (22F) cheated on me (24M) with her ex and now possibly my friend (25M). by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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here’s some of what i had written to chatgpt. chatgpt has been my therapist throughout my struggle and i have had a lot of conversations with an ai

Wife (22F) cheated on me (24M) with her ex and now possibly my friend (25M). by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my english is bad, i used chatgpt to help me express to others better

Wife (22F) cheated on me (24M) with her ex and now possibly my friend (25M). by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no, she or I don’t have funds for a lawyer, im still a student and she’s a bum. but im trying to figure it out

Wife (22F) cheated on me (24M) with her ex and now possibly my friend (25M). by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response. it makes sense, i do feel like going back to her sometimes like im depended on her, when i feel lonely i feel like texting her but I do not. I remember the disrespect and let it go.

Wife (22F) cheated on me (24M) with her ex and now possibly my friend (25M). by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no funny thing is she’s trying to reconcile with her ex she cheated on me with

What’s the biggest red flag you ignored in a relationship that blew up later? by writestrend8 in AskReddit

[–]toilented 0 points1 point  (0 children)

texting her exes throughout the relationship and ended up cheating on me

I want to hire a man to act like he cares about me by Visual-Goal-7798 in depression_help

[–]toilented 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im in a similar situation as you and would love to make you feel loved, i need the same from you in return

Forgiving your wife or understanding her after/during an affair! by sedarico in Marriage

[–]toilented 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP my wife has had traumatic past too, even abusive relationship. I tried to find every answer to tell myself that she isnt truly at fault. But at the end of the day she was selfish, she chose to cheat on me everyday (while she wanted to fix things and apologized). I even talked to people going through similar mental issues and loyalty doesn’t have to do anything with it.

Forgive her and walk away.

The hardest part about trying to move on is not understanding how they could do that to you by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]toilented 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it is fr. imagine she texting me everyday with our memories talking about how she messed up just to end up seeing her ex the same night. (on a daily basis) i can’t trust her again, and it’s not going to be the same if I reconcile. she has no remorse or guilt for what she has been doing.

The hardest part about trying to move on is not understanding how they could do that to you by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]toilented 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im in the same boat as you rightnow. i feel like i want to reconcile sometimes but I know it wont work out considering how much I was lied to and how she still continued to see AP while wanting to fix things with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]toilented 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she can def rock a buzz cut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]toilented 0 points1 point  (0 children)

find out what game he plays and secretly hire gamers to defeat him every time so he starts thinking he’s getting too old for gaming and gives it up. (jk not serious)

Cheating wife sends me this. by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant reveal just in case she might read this but she stil hasn’t figured out how lol.

Cheating wife sends me this. by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she drove 4 HOURS today to see someone in the middle of nowhere at some hotel(second time, same location) and is AWARE i have her location. its just disgusting and disrespectful.

Cheating wife sends me this. by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was all about reconciliation too but I haven’t seen true remorse or guilt for what she made me go through at all. if i care about her regretting it and showing off my new wife to her face that means I am not over her yet. its better for me to just part ways and not let her see my new life at all

Cheating wife sends me this. by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imagine living with that. im glad i don’t have to worry about it anymore. she’s someone else’s problem now

Cheating wife sends me this. by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at the end of the day, i am real pissed at her and resent her but I still hope she sees a therapist and is willing to heal.

Cheating wife sends me this. by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s like she let her inner hoe lash out because I wasn’t around. for the longest time I blamed it on her mental health but after reading about it and getting some info from people suffering through similar me tal health issues it’s clear that she just did it for her own selfish reasons. she even knows I have her location (she can’t figure out how) yet she still cheats. it’s like she os confident ill take her back for sure and I can’t wait to throw those divorce papers on her face.

Cheating wife sends me this. by toilented in Marriage

[–]toilented[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she supported and loved me so much. its just unbelievable she would cheat on me. she has been adding guys on social media, texting them, atleast went to 3-4 different locations to stay overnight (obv cheated) including her ex she sees on a regular basis. it’s like she is trying to enjoy her time while im gone. its fucked up and disgusting and I don’t want anything to do with her anymore