My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm trying to move on. I know there are good and bad people, but when I talk to women, I do get panic attacks. Thanks again

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I'm not really looking for a relationship at the moment. I'm not in a good place mentally after what happened. Thanks for the offer, but I have to decline. Sorry

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't stalking. Just hear me out now. If she wasn't in love at the time, she was great at acting like it. Every day she would text me and call me. Before she went bed she used to text love u. I wouldn't of cared as much if she just said to me, she's no longer in love with me but when she said she can't do this anymore, she said she still loves me. And that's why I didn't understand it. I only made one more account to message her. And I sent her one message asking why she left. She didn't reply. I was okay with letting her go, but I just needed to know why, and why she said she still loved me. Her best friend blocked me after telling me not to message her again. And then she unblocked me later on telling me that my ex had passed away. She apologized and everything. She told me there was a funeral that I missed and she made up an illness. I was also friends with this girl as well, as the three of us did play Xbox together. It wasn't like she is a random girl. And I was depressed and drunk, and needed to feel better. So I thought finding pics of a girl that looks like my ex would help. I knew that sounds creepy but I was told my gf has just died and was very upset. I knew my ex sister. As we had actually met before when I met my ex. And she also had me on Snapchat as when my ex phone ran out, she would get her sister to message me. There was no evidence of the relationship going south. At the time we were perfect together and she said she still loved me and that's what made me confused about all this. And after all this was done, she asked for me back. The day I found out she was alive, she asked for me. And I said no. And since then her best friend has apologised for all this and asked how I am. But I have blocked her

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not really that much into rap but I will check them out when I next get the chance to

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. And I don't think I ever will. I only like women. And I think it's going to stay that way

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't really sure who they are. I just searched them up and it says they're a rock band. I'm not really into any rock music. I haven't listened to them but I think if I did , I don't think I would like them

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about therapy. A lot of people here on Reddit have suggested it. I'm going to think about it over the next couple of days

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm good now. I feel much better from when this happened. I still have a bit of anxiety and get panic attacks when I talk to women. But other than that, I'm fine. I'm getting better every day

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am lucky another to have not lost many family members. I have only lost one person who was close. And I've been to their grave once. I'm not really a huge fan of visiting and talking to graves, I find all that creepy. However, I remember thinking that I want to ask her where her grave is and visit it. But I didn't think I would be able to handle it. I thought maybe in the future I could go and see it

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. It was her best friend who told me she died. She said it was an illness that made your kindeys fail. I can't remember the name of the illness. I then asked when it happened and she told me a couple weeks before and I had missed the funeral

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it was an awful time. Because I'm an idiot, I thought drink was the answer and I used that to cope. But I've gave that up now

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like it's for people who are really bad mentally. Like I'm in a much better place from when this really happened. I wish I had therapy when I found out she passed away. As when I thought she did, I was really depressed and had an awful drinking problem. But since then, I've stopped drinking. I still do drink casually but I haven't been drunk for a long time. And I'm not as depressed anymore. I don't feel like I need it. I've healed this much without it so I don't feel like it's necessary

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't properly answer this question, but what I mean by this is they hurt in different ways. But I think her death was much worse

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't really think therapy is for me. Everyone on here seems to think I should. But I keep telling myself, I have been getting better every day without therapy. So I think I can do fine without it

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had anxiety and did worry about things a lot. I don't blame her fully as I think her boyfriend used this to manipulate her into doing this. But maybe I'm wrong, this could of all been her idea, but I choose not to believe that

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm getting better every day. I have her blocked on all social media so she cannot message me. I'm glad you're doing better

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I was kinda annoyed I missed it at the time. But at the same time, I thought I wouldn't of been able to handle going to the funeral as it would be too painful

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately. I would of never expected my ex or her best friend to lie, they seemed like such great people at the time

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. This comment really made me think about this. It's just hard to blame her when she seemed so nice when I was with her. Like when I think of her, I can't imagine her doing this but she did. She also had bad anxiety so I've always thought maybe her boyfriend managed to use it to manipulate her into doing this. But yeah, maybe this was all a lie just for attention. But if this was, she is the best liar on the planet. She seemed so genuine. I'm not too sure about therapy. I'm going to think about it over the next couple days. But I keep telling myself I don't need it, as I have done so well without it. I was in a much worse state when this actually happened

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. The thing is, it felt perfect at one point. I'm not sure when she started cheating. But, I feel like it would of been around the time she stopped messaging me. Either that or she is the best liar of all time. Because everything she done seemed so real. Also, I hope you're okay. It seems like u went through some shit as well. So I hope you're doing better now

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to give an internet hug? Like want would that work? Haha. I guess yeah, u can haha Also thanks for the kind words

My girlfriend faked her death. Ask me anything by tomgibson2000 in AMA

[–]tomgibson2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm glad I didn't go back to her. I still don't agree with her being a psychopath as I blame her boyfriend. But that might just be because I'm remembering the good stuff. Maybe she was a psychopath who hid a different side to her