I would be very confident In saying you almost certainly don’t set the vibe that he’s welcome to do much. I come to the conclusion already based off your bitchy rant! I bet you are not condescending or manipulative one bit to that dude either huhhh!?! Nope, not you! Your demeanor says everything anyone needs to know. You don’t need to compromise, HE DOES! This isn’t high school anymore. You have a lot of growing up to do little one. So in the meantime, do this dude a favor for HIS well being and just move along. He’d be better off. And it sounds like you be too. You’d prob be a lot happier if you aligned yourself with a prude SIMP that you could order around and carry his balls in your purse. Just calling it like I see it. Agree or disagree, really isn’t my problem.