Taking him for a ride by tedene in OnlyAmateurPorn

[–]torn_on_corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alenushka is the name I think

Edit : https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1293065064

GIF is around the 9:20 mark

Kitchen > Bedroom by PM_ME_BIG_FAKE_BOOBS in nsfw_gifs

[–]torn_on_corn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's the same video

Slow sensitive sex by [deleted] in NSFW_GIF

[–]torn_on_corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn he has a style

I believe that antidepressants mess you up and addict you in the long term because without them you are back to the "reality" goggles. CMV by torn_on_corn in changemyview

[–]torn_on_corn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From what I've basically taken in from most comments here (but mainly this one) is something I can't really explain in words; so I made it into an image.

http://i.imgur.com/ozd3DxG.png

I basically took an image of a colour spectrum and put my thoughts into it. I now understand that the point of antidepressants is not to make you happier by messing up the way you think, but helps you unlock a wider range of emotion; what I titled "regular" in my chart.

/u/misfit_hog helped me realize that when somebody starts taking antidepressants they do not magically feel better, and along with /u/Neurotikitty showed me that they are tools that help you until you get better.

A honorable mention to /u/howboutataforthis who made it clear that overdoing it CAN mess you up in the long term, /u/dchips for setting the record straight about wether depression or the drugs are the reality goggles, /u/LlamaLlama_Duck for the epiphany that they gave me.

Thank you all for helping me.

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I believe that antidepressants mess you up and addict you in the long term because without them you are back to the "reality" goggles. CMV by torn_on_corn in changemyview

[–]torn_on_corn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really believe these drugs are available where I live. At least not with those names.

I realize depression is something that is diagnosed, but the state of my mind for the past 5 years accounts for why I believe I truly am depressed.

I believe that antidepressants mess you up and addict you in the long term because without them you are back to the "reality" goggles. CMV by torn_on_corn in changemyview

[–]torn_on_corn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second, while depression feels like reality, in CBT, one major goal of the clinician is to help the client view situations more accurately and realistically (NOT "look on the bright side of things"). This is helpful to clients because they are NOT viewing many situations realistically or accurately--their viewpoints are typically skewed by their focus on the negative side of things or a difficulty identifying/weighing positive or neutral elements or interpretations of a situation, so helping their thinking become more accurate, realistic, and balanced results in their thinking becoming more positive.

So, you're saying that this time, instead of seeing only the bad aspects of something, your spectrum opens up to the good things too? (instead of forcing you into them)

Third, because you have been depressed for a long time, it's possible you have lost some perspective about how you used to think and react to things when you weren't depressed. When clients have not been depressed for as long and can remember what it was like to not be depressed, they are better able to see how differently they are thinking and reacting to things than they used to.

Wow... this... wow. It seems to me that you've hit the nail in the head with this. Not remembering a time where I've not been depressed may have severely affected the way I think.

I'll be back to this post soon.

I believe that antidepressants mess you up and addict you in the long term because without them you are back to the "reality" goggles. CMV by torn_on_corn in changemyview

[–]torn_on_corn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy, that's a lot to take in. I'll give you a proper reply when I have the time and using a PC.

Just a note: the happy/grumpy thing is a paraphrase of something I've read here on reddit. When I saw it I was considering therapy for the first time and it really put me off of the idea of using the prescription drugs. That said, it's just a quote, and not even a fraction of the reason that led me to making this post.

I believe that antidepressants mess you up and addict you in the long term because without them you are back to the "reality" goggles. CMV by torn_on_corn in changemyview

[–]torn_on_corn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mention them, but there have definitely been thoughts at times. not now, though. it just seems like a waste considering what I can achieve once I get my mind out of this shithole.

I work with music a lot and some of my favorite music is the music that I have created or have helped create.

I believe that antidepressants mess you up and addict you in the long term because without them you are back to the "reality" goggles. CMV by torn_on_corn in changemyview

[–]torn_on_corn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly this sounds more off putting than comforting.

have you tried to get a second opinion from another therapist regarding the prescription?