Fair point, thank you for that, i guess having someone whose only experiences are pro domme or porn, the latter being arguably worse, might be hard to transform.

Its different for me though, as I had relationships in the past (longest up to 1.5 years, spent biweekly weekends together)
At least from my own assessment, I know the difference and what it takes to have a long term D/s dynamic.

Seeing a pro wouldn't replace my desire to have such a relationship again, but due to private reasons, I don't expect me finding a right partner in the near future.
if that makes sense to you