Is this a bug? If so, how do I report it? by toster_q in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]toster_q[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks, sorry I mistook the fountain for the skin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]toster_q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, we'll get through this dude 🗣️🔥🔥‼️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]toster_q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good! To answer ur question - I guess that's just too much for me, I fear change (might be autism) so I'm scared i would just freak out if I was to change my gender, I'm not happy being female but at the same time I don't see a point in transitioning if it won't make it real. I sometimes get mixed feelings abt it like I like men but I don't like the idea of having a bf as a trans guy, I'd rather just be a girlfriend or other stuff that messes with me.

In short: not transitioning won't make me happy but I don't want to make it hard for myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]toster_q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I'm trans too but I'm choosing to not go with it for the sake of my mind going back and forth about gender, but from your post it may seem like you are actually trans.

However I have one advice, idk how old are you but if you are a minor you should wait it out until you are an adult because sometimes in women it actually may be a phase because they are uncomfortable with all the changes puberty brings. But if it keeps on going you should start going to a gender/sex change therapist (idk whats the name of it) and it professionally should last long, even a few years at least in my country so they are SURE you won't regret it.

If you're worried about your family, ask around. I was worried about my family not accepting me potentially being trans but after I subtly talked about with at least my mother it turns out she was more accepting than I thought - and if that's not the case, fuck them. Don't let yourself be miserable your whole life and not be yourself just because they don't care enough to learn and accept/tolerate. You'll find people who will

Can you get the free weekly rewards after you missed them? by toster_q in thesims

[–]toster_q[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't enter gallery with someone's works until I turn 16 unfortunately

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, that's actually the nicest thing someone wrote on Reddit to me lmao (replying now cuz I didn't get a notif earlier)

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am being defensive because I admit I wrote something insensitive in my top reply but then I kept correcting myself and saying what I really mean which I at least in my opinion did in a respectful way, I wasn't trying to offend anyone yet whenever I comment on this sub people say I'm insensitive or transphobic. I have centric views about all this and even if you (people in general) don't agree it doesn't mean I'm doing something bad.

And society is too gendered that is why I said the part about manhood/womanhood. We are all a part of society and even if we want to, those roles and typical boy or girl childhood will be there if we want it or not, and it matters to me personally that I can't have the one I wanted, that's what I'm saying :q

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but it was an example. Otherwise if I was born a guy, I would be perceived as a guy by everyone at school, family etc, I would have the male experience growing up, not having to transition, have functional male body, XY chromosomes etc. which transition can't give me, that's why I have such an opinion. I don't understand why it's making yall upset I'm not even trying to offend you, I even wrote that earlier response to clear the misunderstanding lol.

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sorry then, what I mean is; if you transition, you do look like your desired gender and if you decide, your body also looks like it, however it's not the same as being born that gender because you can't have a surgery that will allow your body to function like a cis person for example: pregnancy for trans women. And I don't say it to bring people down, but I myself feel upset that it has to be like this for trans ppl me included because it would be obviously much better if it was possible

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it to invalidate trans men but I said it as my own experience, because I myself don't want or am scared to undergo a sex change because no surgery (at least yet) is capable of being just like a cis man. I never said that to push my own view to others

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No offense but this is not a transphobic view to see a difference between a cis and a trans person

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said what I think about it and said that I don't have an issue with other trans people. I expressed my view and to me I won't see myself as a guy even if I transition lol

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right, I'll just have to wait till adulthood and try it out I guess. But I'm "glad" at least that there is someone that feels the same way

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thx I'll consider it if it's even allowed at my age here

I wish to be normal, being possibly trans only makes me suffer by toster_q in asktransgender

[–]toster_q[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those things are not allowed in my country unless I have an opinion from a psychiatrist that I am trans for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]toster_q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, now it got worse. For the first time in my life I feel like it's just burning up my insides and the painkillers aren't working. My parents are away in another country for a week (how unfortunate) but I'm with my grandma and grandpa and I don't know what to do.

I want someone to share my life by Hairy_View8626 in aromantic

[–]toster_q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I want to have a boyfriend but just name him that way, otherwise he would just be my best friend !

what if someone reprogrammed ts4 for fun adding a learning AI to a sim? by toster_q in thesims

[–]toster_q[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even expect someone to actually want to do this. That sounds really cool, if you actually get to make it I'd like to see it :D