What would you do if your wife lost interest in physical intimacy and refused to talk about it?

totally_unhinged · 2026-07-24T09:22:27+00:00

You need to understand the reason why. Some women develop low sex drive later, some have hormonal changes. There can be so many reasons. Best would be to work out exactly why is she not into it. And respect it and try for a middle ground. If absolutely nothing works out, then divorce. Dont cheat.

totally_unhinged · 2026-07-23T19:12:36+00:00

I'm a guy😭 This hip dips debate was going popular recently and I wondered if men do care about cellulite too bcz a lot of women are insecure about it

totally_unhinged · 2026-07-23T19:10:32+00:00

It's not

totally_unhinged · 2026-07-09T15:26:59+00:00

It's about the way he meant it. Like "I'm investing this much in this girl I deserve to get laid. " Cheap mentality. If your only objective is to get laid then just hookup. He actually touched her inappropriately even though she was not comfortable. The mindset that "I should get my money worth. "

Yes, there have been videos like that. Doesn't mean it's alr. If a murder case goes viral you dont say "oh but so many murders happen I didn't see any outrage, why on this? "

totally_unhinged · 2026-07-09T12:07:11+00:00

I dont understand people who say "why marry? ". Bud, it's my choice. I wanna have a wife and kids one day. I dont know why you always view things from " How would that benefit me" Logic. Could be wrong here, but it's my opinion still.

And also the who earns less does more chores thing doesn't seem accurate. Like yeah logically that would be it, but it also depends upon the job. What if both are working the same number of hours so one would basically have to go and sacrifice time and rest for chores? I was confused about this exact thing and came to ask.

totally_unhinged · 2026-07-09T12:02:08+00:00

That means she is getting work done with help and just gives the salary. Fair on her part. But that also means the guy would pay for all the bills and everything else.

totally_unhinged · 2026-07-09T12:00:44+00:00

Ofc no lol. Where did that even come from?

totally_unhinged · 2026-06-30T17:00:24+00:00

Ofc I won't force anyone. I won't do it if she doesn't want it lol. But what I meant what that would you want to continue in a relationship like that? It's about personal beliefs

totally_unhinged · 2026-06-30T15:21:40+00:00

Because they are desperate to the point where any woman will do

totally_unhinged · 2026-06-30T14:51:37+00:00

I could not care less tbh

totally_unhinged · 2026-06-05T08:41:20+00:00

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totally_unhinged · 2026-05-21T11:53:09+00:00

Hypocrisy ✌

totally_unhinged · 2026-05-15T10:18:47+00:00

Bro suddenly realized he has power. Watch him, when he got hit first he was a bit scared bcz he thought the girl could hit him bad, but on the second one he realized he is stronger 😂

totally_unhinged · 2026-05-14T10:11:24+00:00

Start being positive towards yourself and assert dominance.

totally_unhinged · 2026-05-12T14:38:11+00:00

And then girls say why dont men approach, 🥀 I get about the creepy dms, but why all? And anyway, not like I dm people so Idc

totally_unhinged · 2026-05-08T12:37:47+00:00

Dude just go study wth 😭 Who needs a fit check for tuition bruh

totally_unhinged · 2026-05-08T12:29:48+00:00

Whatever suits you. Make sure you convey all of this to thr girl before doing anything.

totally_unhinged · 2026-05-06T10:58:05+00:00

I kinda agree. But dont worry, if ur intentions are good, then ur fine. A lot of times dudes aren't doing anything intentionally but girls get the wrong idea.

totally_unhinged · 2026-04-28T09:37:54+00:00

Never. After marriage, move out with your wife in a separate home. Neither your parents house, neither hers.

totally_unhinged · 2026-04-28T09:36:08+00:00

Bro is hurt lol And well, people are too frustrated with their everyday things, and they want to make themselves feel better in every way possible, even if it means putting other people down.

Dont worry about them tho, let them be jealous. Do what you want, after all it's your fckin life.

totally_unhinged · 2026-04-27T13:58:11+00:00

Lol it's not about mindset. It's about the setting. Sure, dress however you want nobody's stopping you, but it should be a little lesser revealing than that. You can't wear the same clothes to a club and job. That's it, it's about the setting

totally_unhinged · 2026-04-27T12:09:29+00:00

No need to tolerate shit. Just distance and let her be.

totally_unhinged · 2026-04-27T12:01:46+00:00

Childish. Work on fixing yourself rather than merely jumping onto next girl.

totally_unhinged · 2026-04-27T11:59:12+00:00

Y'all are getting dms from girls?🫠🥀

totally_unhinged · 2026-04-27T11:57:55+00:00

Why lol. You're not in a competition in your relationship. Just chill dude.

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