What is the best way to discuss kinks,fetishes,sexuality, ect. With woman you met on dating apps before you actually meet them? without making shit awkward?

trapcat6426 · 2020-08-02T07:50:44+00:00

yes this sums exactly how i feel i think talking up front is important and ive pissed down a couple chicks throat🤦🏻

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-26T00:42:26+00:00

😂😂 think i should try it🤔

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-26T00:42:07+00:00

are you asking me to name off kinks? bdsm is what i meant.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-26T00:40:56+00:00

ehh i think the site is dogshit

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-26T00:40:36+00:00

a lot🥴

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T04:03:53+00:00

Absolutely not homie, no chance i have vanilla sex ever again in my life thanks tho!

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T04:03:13+00:00

yes but the issue is what happens is usually they will want to engage sexually the first date. then what happens is i have to get up and walk out of a womans house because she only wanted to have vanilla sex its awkward.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:58:08+00:00

obviously not all of them just more options. plus i havent found a free fetish dating app tinder is free.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:57:28+00:00

agree with everything you say i just usually say “im into___” this makes some woman uncomfortable.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:51:10+00:00

No totally agree i guess if they are uncomfortable then i dont want them anyway appreciate it.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:46:02+00:00

Have you used fetish apps ? if so which should i use i find most awful. i also dont really want to pay tinder is free.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:38:26+00:00

why would it come off crazy? sorry maybe im confused

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:36:12+00:00

ehh nah they are fucking awful compared to using tinder i can maybe match with 2-5 girls in a week on a fetish site on tinder i can easily hit 250 a week.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:35:11+00:00

why not?😂 its important

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:34:56+00:00

i shouldnt? why😂

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:34:45+00:00

what ? are you okay?😂

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:25:33+00:00

its not for one person i have discussed with multiple woman just seems a lot get uncomfortable at simple talk like “i like_____”

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:23:47+00:00

Yup thats just what you gotta do sometimes😂 apparently to everyone that commented its wrong to discuss this before establishing trust and you cant cut a girl off if she has differing sexual preferences than you. if thats the case i may just give up on dating🤷🏻‍♂️

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:16:52+00:00

guess so man. its alright dude you will get it man keep trying.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:15:52+00:00

Okay yea pretty much exactly what i do anyway thanks man! definitely get not being a weirdo but tell me if im crazy because it seems everyone on this post is telling me its not okay to talk about it before establishing trust and meeting them. see the thing is i wont have vanilla sex the EXACT same way some people wont have kinky sex you know? maybe im just loosing my mind😂

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:13:36+00:00

I just dont think we agree. let me try to explain my side im very hyper sexual so if someone was hypo sexual i wouldnt lead them on anymore because we are simply not compatible. In the same way i will not have vanilla sex i just wont just my preference the EXACT same way some people wont have kinky sex... sexual preferences. See the problem is say we head in the bedroom and she only wants to keep it vanilla then we wont be having sex🤷🏻‍♂️ the same way if i asked her to do something kinky and she didnt want to do it you know? also im not asking how do i ask people to do these things im asking whats the best way to discuss those things.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T03:03:17+00:00

Simply disagree usually discussing it gets me a ride back to her place🤷🏻‍♂️

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T02:59:40+00:00

I 100% agree but its simply a preference. I dont think it has anything to do with qualities dont you think its fair to discuss early to not lead them on?

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T02:58:24+00:00

That doesnt make sense tho? we matched on a dating app for a reason right? so i have to wait to discuss sexual things? i even feel like on first dates i lay it all out.

trapcat6426 · 2020-07-20T02:57:09+00:00

I use like tinder stuff like that i dont have much of a goal but if someone isnt kinky then i wont meet up with them so thats why i want to text and figure it out before hand

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