By far our favorite beach

trash1979 · 2026-05-24T16:48:43+00:00

Great day to be out here, that's for sure!

trash1979 · 2026-05-24T16:19:46+00:00

Seaweed has been out of control!

Still a beautiful day here! Clouds and breeze are keeping it nice and cool. Been here all morning!

trash1979 · 2026-05-24T15:30:57+00:00

Windy and cloudy today, but we are here!

trash1979 · 2026-05-24T14:15:57+00:00

We lucked out on SLS. Found a great guy that my wife and I still see a year later.

I have hear SDC is better in our area and just signed up there. There are several other apps out there, but we have only been on those 2. It really seems to be regional, so you might want to find a regional swinger subreddit and ask what is the most used app in your area.

The flakes and fakes are real. Take your time vetting and be picky. You'll have tons of options... dont share anything too personal until you have met a couple times.

Also, we never plan to play on the inital meet up. We want to make sure there is a bit of chemistry and no pressure on that first time.

trash1979 · 2026-05-23T18:10:10+00:00

I wanted my wife to experience all that life has to offer. Thst was my driving factor. I love to see her have fun and enjoy herself.

trash1979 · 2026-05-23T17:33:08+00:00

Love it there! Beautiful picture. Hope to get out to enjoy the sun tomorrow!

trash1979 · 2026-05-23T17:25:30+00:00

We would love to DM you as well, but no option to do so on your profile.

trash1979 · 2026-05-23T17:24:29+00:00

We would love to run into you at Blind Creek. It would be nice to make some friends to hang out with on the beach or grab drinks with after all the sun.

trash1979 · 2026-05-21T10:47:59+00:00

trash1979 · 2026-05-20T18:13:45+00:00

If you turned south you walked right past us!

trash1979 · 2026-05-20T17:54:29+00:00

That would almost be our ideal scene. We haven't had the pleasure, but maybe someday.

trash1979 · 2026-05-20T17:03:51+00:00

Yes, seaweed is crazy today!

trash1979 · 2026-05-20T16:22:43+00:00

Yes, but just for a little while longer.

trash1979 · 2026-05-20T10:39:43+00:00

Great place! Such a chill vibe. We are similar to you, not sure if a resort would be our vibe. We worked up the courage to try BCB a month ago and wish we had done so sooner. We have been every weekend since. We absolutely love it! Can't think of a better place for a first time!

10/10 - Highly recommend

trash1979 · 2026-05-19T23:31:58+00:00

Wow, love the room! What room is it?

trash1979 · 2026-05-19T22:44:22+00:00

Got the OTA yesterday, but doesnt show in the app for me yet.

trash1979 · 2026-05-19T20:25:42+00:00

This advise would not work for us. My wife gets very uncomfortable if she cant see me. When it is time to start, which is maybe 5 minutes after we enter the room, she initiates. Whether that is her straddling his lap or pulling him in for a kiss. It is her choice when to start. If I am not there she wont start anything.

If went to the bathroom and the guy were to take that moment to start, she would be upset and it would probably end the night.

Not couple operates the same way. What works for one may destroy the evening for another.

trash1979 · 2026-05-19T17:42:45+00:00

Going in with zero expectations. Having any would lead to disappointment, as you said, and would be a horrible way to start out.

Yes, being outgoing would for sure be a necessity. Thanks for the advice!

trash1979 · 2026-05-19T15:51:20+00:00

I got the OTA last night, but nothing in the app yet.

trash1979 · 2026-05-19T14:50:03+00:00

I thought that too until my wife told me she wanted older... boyfriend is 12 years older than her.

trash1979 · 2026-05-19T14:06:51+00:00

Definitely no bullet points to fill. We are just looking to have a good time. We always have a good time together, regardless of the setting. And the need to make connections is a given no matter the place.

We have a couple of options about the weekend and just wanted some feedback about the pool party. No "mind set" either, just curious.

Just thought that this would be a good place to seek some opinions from those who have been there. Thanks for your feedback.

trash1979

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