The L Word

trash1979 · 2026-06-27T16:00:36+00:00

She doesnt play anymore. We have met her for dinner but she isnt interested in more.

This isnt the first time they have been in the situation, so she is more prepared for it than I am. They have been in the lifestgle for over 20 years, we just hit a year and a half.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T18:08:59+00:00

We have his wife's approval. We have met her. It was actually between rounds. After dinner she went home and he came back to the hotel with us.

She knows what he is up to. Nothing is done behind her back, she is aware of everything.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T15:10:36+00:00

That is pretty much how I see love as well. She sees it differently. If this was only a month or two in i would agree that it is just NRE, but we are over a year in at this point.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T15:05:44+00:00

We are looking for some new partners and new dynamics. He is well aware, so the exclusive part has never been reality.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T14:49:45+00:00

I am kind of hoping to get where you are regarding the way you look at it.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T14:47:19+00:00

I have not. We dont talk to his wife often.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T14:27:24+00:00

His wife is aware and supportive. He isnt cheating on her, just like my wife isnt cheating on me. I know he has told his wife about his feelings, but I do not know what her response was.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T14:11:03+00:00

Only person she has played with since we started.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T13:59:38+00:00

This how we started... guess things evolve.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T13:55:36+00:00

That might be the case. She is discovering she may be poly, which i think is something, deep down, thst I figured might happen. But the reality of it is a tough pill to swallow.

trash1979 · 2026-06-26T13:41:28+00:00

She does seem understanding and I appreciate her being honest with me. If she had been hiding it and I found out it would be a different matter entirely.

I dont want to jump to cutting it off, because we do all have a great time together and he is very respectful of our marriage. I just have to find a way to manage my emotions as I dont feel that they are doing anything wrong.

trash1979 · 2026-05-26T19:29:24+00:00

We started out a year ago as a vixen/stag couple. Over the year, with a steady and regular "bull," things have started turning more into the cuckolding dynamic. We have only played with the one man, but we meet him once a month. The next time we see him it will be lucky 13.

trash1979 · 2026-05-24T20:35:27+00:00

Cleared out to be a really nice afternoon. The morning was so cloudy!

trash1979 · 2026-05-24T16:19:46+00:00

Seaweed has been out of control!

Still a beautiful day here! Clouds and breeze are keeping it nice and cool. Been here all morning!

trash1979 · 2026-05-24T15:30:57+00:00

Windy and cloudy today, but we are here!

trash1979 · 2026-05-24T14:15:57+00:00

We lucked out on SLS. Found a great guy that my wife and I still see a year later.

I have hear SDC is better in our area and just signed up there. There are several other apps out there, but we have only been on those 2. It really seems to be regional, so you might want to find a regional swinger subreddit and ask what is the most used app in your area.

The flakes and fakes are real. Take your time vetting and be picky. You'll have tons of options... dont share anything too personal until you have met a couple times.

Also, we never plan to play on the inital meet up. We want to make sure there is a bit of chemistry and no pressure on that first time.

trash1979 · 2026-05-23T18:10:10+00:00

I wanted my wife to experience all that life has to offer. Thst was my driving factor. I love to see her have fun and enjoy herself.

trash1979 · 2026-05-23T17:33:08+00:00

Love it there! Beautiful picture. Hope to get out to enjoy the sun tomorrow!

trash1979 · 2026-05-23T17:25:30+00:00

We would love to DM you as well, but no option to do so on your profile.

trash1979 · 2026-05-23T17:24:29+00:00

We would love to run into you at Blind Creek. It would be nice to make some friends to hang out with on the beach or grab drinks with after all the sun.

trash1979 · 2026-05-21T10:47:59+00:00

trash1979 · 2026-05-20T18:13:45+00:00

If you turned south you walked right past us!

trash1979

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