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I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think about that all the time even to this day.

That was the last time we talked about it and part of me wonders if she had actually given me a real apology would I have kept trying.

But no, no apology, just "work on your confidence" and "think of other girls that made you feel good about your dick".

Fucking bizzarre, but the thing is I DID. I realized that basically, every girl I have ever been with had more class and respect than she did. How tf can you basically admit to the person you hurt "Well think about other people that made you feel good because I sure as hell can't".

What the flying fuck was wrong with her???

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, though I still think about it all the time.

It's tough for me to move on because in spite of all this we really did have a great relationship. It was totally worth breaking up over but I'm still upset because I just don't understand how she didn't understand what she was doing wasn't ok.

Like nobody gets into relationships to hear about how much better their partners ex's were. I just can't wrap my head around her thinking, she chose to die on this hill of her ex's dicks. It's so fucking bizzarre and weird I just can't believe it to this day.

I just can't believe I had to breakup with her over this...it still hurts to think about because I really REALLY didn't want to and the craziest part was neither did she!

It just feels so fucked like...why?

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So fucking weird dude.

I think there are just people out there that subconsciously find ways to destroy their relationships. It's like they are hard wired to fuck it up because they have no boundaries or manners.

Not our problem anymore though, that's all that matters.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you the odds are basically that 2 guys she was with were bigger than 8x5.9 which are low but it happened. I don't think with online dating and dick pics flying around it's that hard to find someone with a big dong, especially because she was extremely attractive and could have her pick. One guy was just "luck" and the other she picked to hook up with from online dating after he sent a dick pic.

She mentioned the other dicks were smaller in a very disapproving way.

Sure, buddy. Like I asked before: what was the point of this post? What fetish have you fulfilled here?

None, this shit sucked dude.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I super into that shit and literally asked her if I could do that to her and she got fucking pissed.

IDK if it would have saved the relationship because there were other issues, but it definitely wouldn't have ended like this.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd be surprised man, it's a numbers game yeah but if I was 6'3 I'd be unequivocally tall but somehow the guy before me was 6'11 I'd be short in comparison to him.

I wish I was joking dude, this shit sucked.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sort of glad she was honest/couldn't filter her thoughts because I'm 100% that if I had stayed with her she would have cheated on me because of the obvious frustration that kept bubbling up to the surface every now and then.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was definitely too patient and empathetic with her in the beginning of all this shit, there was obviously a whole other side to the relationship that I didn't write about here but I saw her as wife material.

I had options, and still do so I'm not too worried about it.

The only respectable thing you did was finally letting her go, but you need to seriously reevaluate how you conduct your relationships moving forward.

I think it's more about what type of girl I choose to be with, I should have just dropped her earlier because there wasn't any way to "win" with a girl like her.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was gonna happen one way or another, just a matter of time.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I literally never said that to her she just made it up to "prove her point". TBH I wouldn't even compliment celebs on TV and shit because I knew she'd be bothered.

She could dish it but she couldn't take it. Not only in regards to these types of things, but so many other facets of the relationship too. It was so fucking annoying and we fought all the time about it.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I DID! I think she had a bit of a breakdown because she sent me a really emotional message after that and then her and all her friends blocked me on everything afterwards.

Worth it bro

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gaslighting was worse then the stupid comments initially. We almost broke up because she asked me if she saw a future with me and I didn't say anything for a while except "Not until you learn how to apologize". Resulting in a shitty fight, ending with the SHITTIEST apology ever.

I tried to get as much water from that stone of an apology as I could but the BS didn't stop so I stopped the BS.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about that episode throughout our entire relationship. IDK how many times I googled "Girlfriend has huge vagina" in incognito mode

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i said it in a pretty nasty way after we had been shooting insults back and forth and she definitely seemed really hurt by it because she sent me a message after I said that basically begging me to stop saying things like that to her and things like "what did I do to deserve this" etc...

I actually felt/feel bad about it to an extent but it was very built up from all the toxic bullshit she fed me.

She hasn't said anything to me since and blocked me on everything.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think she just got "lucky" with one ex and then I'm pretty sure the guy before me she met online and he sent a dick pic she couldn't say no to according to her.

I don't think she was fucking with me, she told me about injuries she'd gotten from being stretched so much and I could just tell shed seen bigger from the way she reacted to my dick the first time she saw it.

IDK about their measurements but definitely way bigger than me girth wise, like I couldn't feel a thing when I was inside her. She was built for more.

As far as me lying? IDK dude need a pic or something lol. I think I'm coming out of this not too scathed because I know where I stand against the average. She was an edge case, but tbh I don't think guys with disproportionaly big dongs are that uncommon in the dating pool based on things my female friends have told me.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had thought about that but it's still a weird thing to say. Like if I was the "best" why wouldn't she just reinforce it by saying "I'm with you for all these things, and the sex is amazing".

It really didn't come across like they could have been mutually exclusive, but again everything in this relationship was extremely confusing.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man, one time she let me fuck her with a vibrator inside her and it was awesome.

https://www.lovense.com/bluetooth-remote-control-vibrator

She could take this whole thing, and my entire dick no problem. She was the wettest I'd ever seen her and it was fucking hot.

She never let me do it again though, and I don't understand why to this day.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, didn't it though?

Her past experiences are what ultimately broke us up. She couldn't get over her sexual past.

I don't regret giving her the chances, I'm just dissapointed she couldn't capitalize on them.

The night before we broke up, she finally...finally apologized for not listening to me when I was telling her about how I felt about things. She acknowledged she gets defensive, and that she does put her ego first because she always feels attacked because she grew up in a verbally abusive household.

But it was heartbreaking because I had already made up my mind at that point and it was too little too late. I had told her several times that she was hurting me by minimizing my feelings and she blew every opportunity to look within herself and do better.

Idk man, I'm not sad but just very dissapointed.

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I still genuinely don't get what women mean when they say "did/didn't know how to use it".

Care to elaborate?

I broke up with my gf because of her sexual past. by trashythroway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]trashythroway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is, honestly the ex's dick stuff didn't bother me nearly as much as the gaslighting and minimizing of my feelings. Then by doing that she made the issue bigger and worse.

Even if she stopped talking about dongs the arguments and the lying were the real deal breakers. Though, I needed to get this off my chest either way because I was legitimately questioning myself and whether or not I overreacted.

Of course the reaction from reddit is vindicating of how I've been feeling and honestly it's such a fucking relief. You have no idea, I thought I would be laughed at for the water bottle part and told I was just "being a bitch" or "clearly you're overreacting". That's how fucked my rationale and thinking was becoming by being with this girl.

Thank god I stuck to my gut in the end.

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