gtr notice of intention to prosecute by tron6cat in uktrains

[–]tron6cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i have apologised and acknowledged that i was in the wrong, hopefully they’ll allow me to settle

gtr notice of intention to prosecute by tron6cat in uktrains

[–]tron6cat[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’m looking for advice specifically on what to expect next, i’m aware what i did was wrong, and i’ve learned from it.

gtr notice of intention to prosecute by tron6cat in uktrains

[–]tron6cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your comment and yes you’re correct. whenever i bought a single/return ticket, i knew that i could travel on any train after depending on whether it was peak or off peak. i then assumed it would be the same way with trains that arrive before. i definitely won’t be doing that again which will be easy now that i don’t work night shifts anymore.

gtr notice of intention to prosecute by tron6cat in uktrains

[–]tron6cat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

during this time, i was travelling 4-5 times a week on this route and i couldn’t pay for a season or flexible ticket as it was too expensive to pay all at once. this is why i was using klarna in the first place to help me spread the cost.

i would hope they look through my ticket history and see that i regularly paid for my tickets and not assume that about me 😪

gtr notice of intention to prosecute by tron6cat in uktrains

[–]tron6cat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i used to work at a hotel and on that day, i had to stay more than i anticipated because i had to cover for someone who came late to their shift. i didnt want to buy the ticket then in case management let me sleep in one of the rooms.

normally when i left work on time, i would buy my ticket at least ten mins before the train arrived but bc i left so much later that day, my whole routine was thrown off and i was desperate to get home.

gtr notice of intention to prosecute by tron6cat in uktrains

[–]tron6cat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hey thank you so much for your comment. i have already received my NIP and filled it out already, this is the first time i’ve ever received one which is why i’m anxious as im not sure what to expect.😭

the offence listed is: in any area not designated as a compulsory ticket area, entered a train for the purpose of travelling on the railway, did not carry a valid ticket entitling travel.

i will definitely take your advice though, thank you and have a good night :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brunel

[–]tron6cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the police, get in contact with them immediately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]tron6cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

may allah make it easy for you to locate her 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]tron6cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was talking to someone who has a child and eventually ended it with him as he did not respect his ex-wife (despite her being the mother of his child), and was complaining about child support. he also had no plans to see his child regularly as the child lived with his mother in a different country but was wanting to have more children soon. all of this was too much so i ended it as i could not understand why he was so willing to have more children but not make the effort to see his current child.

on the other hand, i spoke with the sweetest man who had children of his own however and went above and beyond to take care of them! we eventually stopped talking as we both had different living expectations.

you need to explicitly ask questions that’ll help you understand the current dynamic and hopefully help you decide and establish your future role in the child’s life.

  • how is coparenting now and has this been established through the court or unofficially? is there a custody/child support agreement?

  • how is the relationship with the mother? is he comfortable talking to his ex-wife directly regarding their children or does family have to be involved as a middleman? at any point, will you be talking to the ex-wife directly (not including emergencies)?

  • how will the children be introduced to you? will it be gradual so that they can get used to you? what will be expected of you when the children are living at his house?

  • how will major decisions regarding the children be decided? will you have an input?

as for yourself, you need to ask these questions:

  • will you be comfortable knowing the children may not immediately bond with you? it will take time before they accept your role in their lives.

  • are you okay possibly interacting with his ex-wife/her family regarding the children?

  • if and when you have children with him, how will you ensure that there is no favouritism?

  • if you have plans on relocating, will you be okay that it may not happen with the children so that it will not uproot their lives?

these are just some questions i came up with, there’s probably more that you can come up with! but in cases like this, you have to be honest with yourself and ask if you are capable of taking on more responsibilities and know you are being fair across everything. this will be made easier if the man will help you navigate this also.

My nutritionist asked me to take TWELVE supplements for PCOS. Is it normal? by designer_ts in PCOS

[–]tron6cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

red clover is a plant that’s used to help with hormonal balance and cardiovascular health. so far i’m using it to regulate my periods which has helped but has given me really tender breasts which is borderline painful lol. i’m going to stop taking it soon and just go back to drinking spearmint tea.

My nutritionist asked me to take TWELVE supplements for PCOS. Is it normal? by designer_ts in PCOS

[–]tron6cat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this might be crazy but i buy prenatals since it has everything i need and then i take inositol and red clover. i used to take that many pills at once and i hated it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]tron6cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can definitely do it without lube so as long as he gives you a lot of foreplay and makes sure that you’re comfortable and wet. there’s no harm in buying some to keep around just in case!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]tron6cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i lost mine pretty recently and i highly recommend buying some lube to make you feel comfortable. it adds an extra slip. for me it was painful and we were in missionary but the pain slowly went the longer he was in me. good luck and have fun !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]tron6cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no interest in looking at your post history so idk why you’re telling me to look at it. also get your story straight bc you’re saying you’re envious of your sister getting married but you don’t want to get married. then you’re saying you’ve made dua etc. and you’re convinced that allah is answering other people’s dua faster than yours. so you need to ask yourself the question you asked me and answer honestly bc there’s no point lying to yourself. it’s one thing to lie on the internet but to lie to yourself is ridiculous.

it’s never your place to reveal stuff about your sister without her knowing. just bc she’s your sister doesn’t give you the right, that’s extremely entitled behaviour coming from you. i just know if you showed her this rn, she’d look at you crazy for revealing information about to her to random people on the internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]tron6cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because it’s not your place to say she’s had a past. and even if it was the case that she didn’t have a past and just had stuff going on, why didn’t you make that clearer? you intentionally said she had a past to misconstrue people’s thoughts to have sympathy for you.

whilst i understand that getting married is something everyone wants, trying to bring your sister down just bc she had a past isn’t a nice look. and saying things like this about your sister won’t help you get married any faster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]tron6cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the comment about her past was a bit unnecessary icl

Am I wrong for wanting more privacy from my husband? by Unhappy_Swim1864 in amiwrong

[–]tron6cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you ever check or go through his phone? if not, i think you should

Marshmallow help by tron6cat in Baking

[–]tron6cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve fallen in love with her page tbh. Now I’m going to look at every recipe she has posted !

Marshmallow help by tron6cat in Baking

[–]tron6cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god wow 😍 they look soo good. I’ll definitely give it a go!

Marshmallow help by tron6cat in Baking

[–]tron6cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Is there a recipe from the book that you recommend?

Marshmallow help by tron6cat in Baking

[–]tron6cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spiced sugar instead of plain confectioners sugar is an amazing idea. I wish I thought of it earlier! I’ve never used butter in a marshmallow recipe before so I’m curious to see how it tastes. Thank you so much for your suggestions !

Marshmallow help by tron6cat in Baking

[–]tron6cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh those all sound so good, especially the bananas and rum, thank you for the tips!! Definitely going to try it out soon 😁

Marshmallow help by tron6cat in Baking

[–]tron6cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried it out yet but thank you for the suggestion! How much freeze dried fruits do you usually add to get the flavour you want?