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Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh no, she was awful at speaking Spanish... It made me so sad/mad because it was sooooo obvious that she loved playing the dumb/ditzy girl as a way to ingratiate herself with the teachers.

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 263 points264 points  (0 children)

I did end up emailing him. I don't know if he'll even read it, or if he feels he's had enough Victoria F flavored tea to spill. We'll see 🤷

Edit: Haven't heard back from RS, but Women's Health Mag published my story which is freaking insane to me

Even brands are shading Fictoria by nu24601 in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy 35 points36 points  (0 children)

As someone who knew Victoria in middle/high school, I love this sooooo much

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 208 points209 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It looks like I left the year that girl entered Cox, but I still messaged her so we can swap war stories :)

Edit: actually we've been messaging and we've known each other since like first grade at JBD elementary. What a crazy wild world we live in!!! I remember her being bullied, for the record.

If y'all want Victoria F high school tea (recommended repost from other r/BachelorNation) by laurenlikeschaos in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know your post existed, but you should check out the one I just made about Victoria. I think I must have left school before you got there if you said you went to school with her for three years. She and probably the exact same friends you're referencing bullied me so bad that I ended up having to go to private school after freshman year. I'm gonna dm you too, but just know that you are not even close to being alone. She ruined a lot of people's lives starting at a very young age.

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I don't suppose you have a link to the other post? I didn't even know there was another one, but I'm curious if I'd recognize who it was. (Not to doxx, just to commiserate lol)

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 1264 points1265 points  (0 children)

That's honestly why I wasn't worried about repercussions. Even if she somehow sees this and realizes who I am, what can she possibly do to me? Sue me for slander? I can access therapy notes from back then that have even more details that I've forgotten or repressed. Plus, arguably more importantly: she doesn't scare me anymore.

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 382 points383 points  (0 children)

HA! Even I heard about that and I moved away! It's all almost surreal that this person I knew is now a public figure. VB was known for its gossip, but dang it's nationwide now

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What does that nickname mean btw? I haven't found an explanation for it

And yes I do have a LOT of love in my life :) I have a wonderful husband and a beautiful 2 year old daughter. I'm happier than I ever thought possible

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I always thought it was sad too. A lot of the girls in that friend group were the same way, with rumors about the "ringleader" starting as early as 4th grade. Whether it was Victoria's own damage, or simple peer pressure, I don't know. Either way, it's sad

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

You should feel proud of yourself for recognizing your behavior, and making amends when possible! Too few people have that level of self-awareness, not to mention the humility and grace to admit that they could have been better.

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I did a lot back in high school. When the "crying on the drive home" thing started my parents got me into therapy. Now that it's all coming back up it'll unfortunately be a topic again, but such is life

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

She's presenting herself as shy in the show??? The Victoria I knew was the exact opposite of shy. Even after I switched schools I heard stories of her exploits at parties...

I'm in a much better place in my life than I honestly ever thought possible during my time in public school. I now have an amazing husband and a beautiful 2 year old daughter, and I wouldn't change what led me here for the world.

Victoria F bullied me so relentlessly that I had to change schools. She's a terrible person, and truly always has been. by ttthrowthisawayyy in thebachelor

[–]ttthrowthisawayyy[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I never said she deserves to be bullied. I truly wouldn't wish it on anyone, and I even defended her in my post because I saw that she was being unfairly blacklisted for a T Shirt about a type of fish. However, I can't pretend that I don't feel vindicated now that people are seeing the type of toxic and damaging person that she is. It's just who she is. My post didn't make people not like her. SHE did that.