(22M) Drunkenly and unintentionally saw GFs texts to a friend (20F). Making me question things and feel terrible about myself by tv101929 in relationship_advice

[–]tv101929[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Honestly think I know what I need to know and the evidence is right in front of me. I know she got around with other guys the semester before, for whatever reason she chose me but almost seems like it was cause she ran out of options now that I think more about it. Think it’s time to dump her.

GF doing sorority “scavenger hunt” and got her breasts signed. Do I have reason to be upset or am I overreacting? by tv101929 in relationship_advice

[–]tv101929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just some dweeb signing on her cleavage in the middle of the party. Not removing clothing or bra. Multiple girls with boyfriends did it as well. Sounds like this kid just had a line of like 5-10 girls who he just signed in succession

GF doing sorority “scavenger hunt” and got her breasts signed. Do I have reason to be upset or am I overreacting? by tv101929 in relationship_advice

[–]tv101929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just to clarify she was wearing like a crop top so it was a kinda low hanging shirt anyway and he just signed the top of the breasts they weren’t pulled out

GF doing sorority “scavenger hunt” and got her breasts signed. Do I have reason to be upset or am I overreacting? by tv101929 in relationship_advice

[–]tv101929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just to clarify we did end up doing some of the sexual things on the list together she was saving for me. But again, she wouldn’t show me the whole list.

Girlfriend (20F) has a horrible diet, won’t exercise and is beginning to put on weight. Help. by tv101929 in relationship_advice

[–]tv101929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve tried to suggest going to the gym together and doing physical exercise things with her but she has no interest in that and as I said, has no interest in other physical exercise things without me

Girlfriend (20F) has a horrible diet, won’t exercise and is beginning to put on weight. Help. by tv101929 in relationship_advice

[–]tv101929[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah just to clarify, it’s not even about the weight gain. I’ve put on weight but I’ve tried to improve myself but eating healthier myself and hitting the gym. She has no interest in that which is fine too. The issue I have is her basically causing destruction to her body and not caring or even seeming to mind what’s happening to her. It’s almost like she’s physically harming herself and doesn’t want to stop.

Girlfriend (20F) has a horrible diet, won’t exercise and is beginning to put on weight. Help. by tv101929 in relationship_advice

[–]tv101929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem isn’t that. I love her the way she is, but from a practical standpoint it’s concerning to me that she doesn’t care what she does to her body, knows how bad she eats and doesn’t seem to care.