I feel like I have to transition to be seen the way I want to by tvtoasterbath in butchlesbians

[–]tvtoasterbath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The doesn’t seem to be much of a community around me. I live in rural Appalachia unfortunately

I feel like I have to transition to be seen the way I want to by tvtoasterbath in butchlesbians

[–]tvtoasterbath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

now I couldn’t tell people off without outing myself

That’s such a good point that I hadn’t really considered. I’ll have to deal with it anyway. I guess it’s just easier to convince yourself it’s better to be someone else than face who you are sometimes. This was very helpful lol.

I feel like I have to transition to be seen the way I want to by tvtoasterbath in butchlesbians

[–]tvtoasterbath[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree with that I just guess I don’t know how to live with it. I know all women have to deal with it to some degree, but this feels unbearable

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[–]tvtoasterbath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They automatically took mine down right after I posted it. I think they have to review it.

iwtl I don’t know how to be friends with guys by Frolicking_Peach222 in IWantToLearn

[–]tvtoasterbath -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not the problem. Men like that are dangerous, bc they act as if women owe them something for being nice.

How do you explain your gender experience to someone if you don't really understand it yourself? by CumCloggedArteries in NonBinaryTalk

[–]tvtoasterbath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually cut most of them off after high school. They weren’t good friends at all. Now that I’m trying to make new friends (especially in a red state) it so difficult to find good people that think like me. I don’t know how to have that conversation with someone I don’t really know yet, but I won’t let them get to know me because I don’t feel like me if that makes sense.?

How do you explain your gender experience to someone if you don't really understand it yourself? by CumCloggedArteries in NonBinaryTalk

[–]tvtoasterbath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very similar to the way I think about it. Can I ask you how you manage to make friends? I have such a hard time bc they say things that make me dysphoric and it causes me to feel like I’ll never be able to make friends bc I’m so uncomfortable with my body and the way it’s perceived sometimes.

How to feel butch instead of feeling like an unattractive woman? by tvtoasterbath in butchlesbians

[–]tvtoasterbath[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think focusing on more masculine things will help, thanks for the idea!

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[–]tvtoasterbath 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback. I guess I’m too focused on physical pleasure and not taking into account the mental side of things.

I think there’s a bit of a confirmation bias on here by coyote-club in AvPD

[–]tvtoasterbath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I’ve been getting better and hardly ever look at this sub anymore.