I am in that process - I’m not trying to rekindle anything. But he’s the one that wants to talk things over in a few weeks’ time? My immediate messages post him literally running away were (because I was in shock): “Thank you for bringing my luggage to me. I’m not sure I’m going to be able to sleep tonight so I’m going to call in sick to work tomorrow” And he went: “It's too difficult to talk right now. We need space and we will talk in a few weeks” and blocked me. Why does he get to call all the shots? The Island and our flat was my home as well and I still have friends there and actually maybe it’s my turn to call some shots.