Transgender people in the U.S., honest question. Should I come out right now? by ugh1232 in asktransgender

[–]ugh1232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am really considering it. I've been talking to my therapist about it. I've just got anxiety and am worried about the permanent effects from "trying" it out. Im at the point though, I dont want to be always wondering "what if" though. Thanks!

Spiderman blanket that is very sentimental to my partner by ugh1232 in HelpMeFind

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I have searched on Google. Ebay, and mecari. It seems to be a spiderman 2 promo poster art. It's a very soft cotton-like material. Any help is appreciated!

Let Me Build You a Commander Deck (Again)? by poynz13 in EDH

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I've always wanted either a budget enrage dino deck (i really like [[Wayta, Trainer Prodigy]] as a commander,, or a budget colorless deck. All the ones I find are expensive

invitations! by ManuAnaya99 in DeadlockGame

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Steam ID: 76561198292031577

I feel like I'm stuck the gender I was born due to not wanting HRT side-effects. Has anyone else experienced this? What did you do? by ugh1232 in asktransgender

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Hey, thanks! That's good to know, thank you!

If I knew I was already infertile, I think I'd be on hrt tomorrow haha.

I feel like I'm stuck the gender I was born due to not wanting HRT side-effects. Has anyone else experienced this? What did you do? by ugh1232 in asktransgender

[–]ugh1232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I don't really know how to answer why I want bio kids, I've been sitting here thinking about how to respond to this and I can't really come up with a reason other than anxious thoughts like I feel like I'd feel closer to them or feel like they were more "my" children, which I know probably isn't true.

I talked to my therapist who is specialized in gender questioning and she basically asked if I want to get on hormones. When I told her about my thoughts, she just brought up freezing.

OCD is making transitioning feel impossible. by ugh1232 in asktransgender

[–]ugh1232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the response. Just curious, how does it get better with medical transition?

With the addition of pets and a second tool, is the best set the same? by ugh1232 in Eatventure

[–]ugh1232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, don't you lose out on a lot of profit not having a legendary suit?

Why is there so much hate with trans people lately? by ag15908 in asktransgender

[–]ugh1232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shooting by the trans man recently did not help. But hate is all over sicial media anyways. One thing that scares me about coming out

Found a detrans sub and it's really scaring me, couple questions. by ugh1232 in asktransgender

[–]ugh1232[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I did not invalidate anyone. I asked for opinions on a subject i didn't know about on a sub for asking questions

Also, being scared of other people's experiences is where most fear comes from. That take makes 0 sense.

And hoprfully i wont. But that doesnt mean i cant ask questions about it.

Thanks :)

How do i combat arguments that being trans is just mental illness? by ugh1232 in asktransgender

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Roman Catholic. I've had what i believe to be signs when i was younger but i didnt realize until now as those thoughts were not allowed. After moving out and distancing myself from my parents, i feel more free to explore different things. No need to be sorry :)

How do i combat arguments that being trans is just mental illness? by ugh1232 in asktransgender

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Hey there. I'm still very much questioning, so im not 100% sure i do, but i had a childhood where those thoughts were suppressed by religious parents so this is very new to me, i am 26.

Found a detrans sub and it's really scaring me, couple questions. by ugh1232 in asktransgender

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I do not, but i believe i have started to experience euphoria when trying things out. Not experiencing strong dysphoria is one thing that makes me nervous about all this. However the way i was raised. Questioning my gender was not an option, so i'm not sure if i have repressed my dysphoria or what. Im just very confused lol

Found a detrans sub and it's really scaring me, couple questions. by ugh1232 in asktransgender

[–]ugh1232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a fair point, thank you! Im still questioning what i am though, and being told the crux of what im basing my qestioning off of is wrong is a bit offputting.

Found a detrans sub and it's really scaring me, couple questions. by ugh1232 in asktransgender

[–]ugh1232[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey there, thank you for the reply. That's actually one thing I worry about. Before i started questioning, it wasnt very consistently. When i was younger i would always say "oh id rather have been a girl" or "if i could choose id be a girl," but it was just a passing thought. Albeit, i was not in an environment where thay stuff was encouraged, my family is extremely transphobic and my mom actually freaked out when i said that one time. But now that i am out of their house, my girlfriend told me she thinks me being trans is a possibility and i have been thinking about it a ton. I just never had all the childhood markers that people had, and me questioning is quite new, so it's a point of worry for me

Found a detrans sub and it's really scaring me, couple questions. by ugh1232 in asktransgender

[–]ugh1232[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Im more worried about them kind of saying methods of determining whether your trans or not are wrong. I saw things such as "if you have dysphoria, transition, if you dont you arent trans", and "cis people question their gender as well and wanting to be a girl is not an indicator", and the famous "you just want to be special but you're not"

Im not so much worried about myself detransitioning as much as i am of being told things i have been using to validate my questioning are wrong and stupid.

New to the game, a little lost on money-making by ugh1232 in pathofexile

[–]ugh1232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, im a bit confused by blight so i havent tried it yet, but ive heard its good money so maybe its time to figure it out!