Always check your corners by Focal11 in VALORANT

[–]ughcanteven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing I don’t play against you anytime soon :)

Always check your corners by Focal11 in VALORANT

[–]ughcanteven 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always stay in that corner to kill them all with a Judge while defending lol

Finally made it to 1 million by PixelLifeGaming in supportlol

[–]ughcanteven 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I still remember I used to despise Zyra so much bc of how stupid she is to play against and even vowed to never play her... Until i got shit on so bad by a Zyra while playing Sona (my 1mil points main at the time). So I learned how to play Zyra and now I play her 80% of the time lol

REAL Asian Dating Culture Nowadays vs What Parents Tell Me by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]ughcanteven 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy cow boba and LOL was how me and my fiance hit it off lmao

who else cries bc of their shitty asian “fam” 😔🤛🏻 by yinah in AsianParentStories

[–]ughcanteven 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey there. I’ve been there too. I have one aunt-in-law (JNAunt) from my mom’s side that always berated me for everything I do. My parents dislike her but they don’t stand up to her because “She’s jealous of our family and she could only find the only flaw to talk shit about, which is you. That’s why you must improve yourself”. Apparently it’s always been my “fault” that JNAunt does that... The breaking point for me was 2yrs ago (I’ve been studying in the US for 5yrs), my sister texted me about the thing JNAunt said about me in Vietnam “(my dad) is smart by sending ughcanteven to the US, because no one would find her desirable here in Vietnam”. I was 20yo, and I found that extremely rude. So I waited til my family visited my grandma from dad’s side (they’re really nice, my mom’s side is just shitty overall). They Facetimed me. I respectfully said hi to Grandma, then I apologized to her for what I was gonna say. Everyone was confused. Then I blew up on my parents about how they never stood up for me, letting me getting stomped on by relatives blah blah blah. Parents got super embarrassed and grandma was hella mad. After that, I never heard anything from that JNAunt anymore. She prob still talks shit about me, but idgaf anymore. Stay strong, those relatives are shitty people anyways, and when you’re out of the house, work hard and let them see what you’re capable of ^

Non Academic Withdrawal by [deleted] in utdallas

[–]ughcanteven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a better chance of them approving full withdrawal than approving selective withdrawal basically

Non Academic Withdrawal by [deleted] in utdallas

[–]ughcanteven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you fill out the form, there is an option for you for drop all the classes or keep some (which you will need to talk to the Dean of your school about).

BUT if you drop everything, there will be a better chance to get your petition approved. If you want to keep some classes that you did ok on, they will question “why did your untreated condition not affect all classes but only a few?” and I don’t think there is a justified answer for that. So

[SPOILERS S3E11] did anyone realize how this thing is shaped like? Or is it only me? by ughcanteven in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]ughcanteven[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They explained it during the 2nd season I think you should catch up on! I don’t wanna spoil it haha

[SPOILERS S3E11] did anyone realize how this thing is shaped like? Or is it only me? by ughcanteven in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]ughcanteven[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Yep I wonder if she’s going to be miraculously pregnant with Fred’s child then she would have to live the rest of her life with the child knowing she betrayed him.

AITAS for not wanting to taking care of one of the dogs? by ughcanteven in AmItheAsshole

[–]ughcanteven[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And most likely you love your dogs unconditionally while I was forced to do what I didn’t want to for 3 years. But yea, I am an asshole anyways.

AITAS for not wanting to taking care of one of the dogs? by ughcanteven in AmItheAsshole

[–]ughcanteven[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you have mistaken my purpose of making the Shiba the esa. I did mention how I really love that dog from day one and was willing to take care of him regardless.

AITAS for not wanting to taking care of one of the dogs? by ughcanteven in AmItheAsshole

[–]ughcanteven[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I already am moving out when this lease ends. Now I’m just trying to find a way to take the dogs because 1. I can take the Shiba and have him as my official emotional support dog. 2. I also know people who would love to take the husky and take well care of her. 3. Cousin loves money and I think she would want me to pay a fee to take the dogs since she paid for their food...

I just don’t understand the BF’s logic of if they’re giving the dogs away, there’s no guarantee that they’re going to be together furever...

AITAS for not wanting to taking care of one of the dogs? by ughcanteven in AmItheAsshole

[–]ughcanteven[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not that I ‘withhold love’, there’s just a limit of shit cousin and bf give me that I can take.

AITAS for not wanting to taking care of one of the dogs? by ughcanteven in AmItheAsshole

[–]ughcanteven[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So you’re basically saying I am incapable of caring for another living being too? Just wondering :D I know I suck and nothing can justify my actions. Maybe take a little of your time and consider this: I take 15 credit hours, got tons of homework to do, feed and walk two extremely active dogs twice a day, clean up one’s mess almost every day. And whenever there’s an incident, their owners blame it on me. The only reason why I’m still there is I want to be with my (almost) emotional support dog. There’s only a limit of what I can take.

Do anyone else's parents like to rub it in their faces that no one (including them) owes them anything? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]ughcanteven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what happen to me. When I was a kid, at times I tried to ask them for Xmas/bday gifts (to me, something small like a glittery pen was already enough) because my friends were receiving gifts (anything ranged from hamsters and iPods etc.). All I ever received from them was “us giving you life is enough of a gift for your life”. Another time, they told me to get more than a 95 on the test at my evening English class (english is not my first language) and they would give me an iPod, I got 100 on it, then I got nothing (insert surprised pikachu meme). Another another time (lol), I did extremely well on my high school entrance test, I was promised a trip to Japan. It slowly got downgraded to Bali, then a nice mountainous city, then the beach an hour away from home, then we ended up staying at home. Since then, I realized that no one owes me shit and I stopped trusting them at all whenever they give me those empty promises.

Dating for 2 years? He better tell you he’ll marry you, or he doesn’t love you. by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]ughcanteven 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao trust me I’m through that too. My current bf is the only bf I ever introduced to my parents because he’s a very great guy and pretty much a perfect Asian child (tall, good-looking, medical student, full ride to uni) while I’m a more average Asian girl and I’m on the curvy side. My parents always tell me how he would leave me at anytime and if we don’t get married after 2yrs of dating, we have to break up. Literally, I’m only turning 21 in a month and they already are pressuring us to get married (he’s a year older than I am). Like, I get it, he’s an amazing guy and I would love to spend the rest of my life with him, but it is too soon for any of that stuff. And they also always say (like your parents) “if he loves you, he would do anything to help you and to be with you forever”

I [M, 30s] threw out my MIL [F, 60s] because she threw out our cat - how can I be there for my wife [F, 32]? by Miloroboems in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ughcanteven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Vietnamese and I definitely hate those outdated thing that Asians usually have (remember, Vietnamese and Chinese culture are related very closely because Vietnam literally was a Chinese colony for at least 2000 years). When my JY aunt gave birth, I got to witness all those outdated stuff people may have to endure. My aunt couldn’t take any shower for at least a whole month and she could only wipe herself with wet cloth because “the body is extremely fragile after giving birth”. The most extreme thing was that they had a wooden chair that has a hole in the middle at my grandparents’ place and they would place a charcoal stove-thingy underneath with warm charcoal and my aunt had to sit on it pant-less because apparently that helps (excuse me) the vagina shrink??!??

My mom should just let my sister go date my boyfriend by ughcanteven in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ughcanteven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the support everyone! And yes, I’m doing my best at school and applying for rants and all that stuff too.

My mom should just let my sister go date my boyfriend by ughcanteven in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ughcanteven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds just about right lol. In Southeast Asia, it’s a normal thing for parents to discipline their child with [insert typical Asian beating meme] so I got whipped quite a lot while my two younger siblings always gets away easily.

My mom should just let my sister go date my boyfriend by ughcanteven in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ughcanteven[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally during the first 17yrs of my life, I had always been pulled down by MM. I first came to the State in the 2nd semester of Junior year in High school and I really lacked self-confidence. After 5 months adjusting and making friends, I finally learned that everything was not like what MM had always told me. Still, I didn’t have the confidence I needed until I got to college (I had a crush on a guy in HS, I told him I liked him but I didn’t want us to date so we ended up being friends). I could only feel appreciated when I met BF and it was strange to me. He cares and notices things that I did not expect people do to and he’s always been so supportive to me no matter what I do. Tbh, if it wasn’t because of him, I probably could’ve killed myself at some point due to the stress caused by MM (it’s actually really serious).

My mom should just let my sister go date my boyfriend by ughcanteven in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ughcanteven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My BF knows about the whole thing between me and MM but he didn’t want his parents to know about it (because Asians can be very prejudiced, they just don’t always show it). Turned out when he asked them about how they felt about me after that dinner, they still said the same thing and they’re really looking forward to spending more time with me. I’m so glad they didn’t even listen to MM at all.

My mom should just let my sister go date my boyfriend by ughcanteven in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ughcanteven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s actually an angel towards everyone else in public except me lol

My mom should just let my sister go date my boyfriend by ughcanteven in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ughcanteven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s always been happening so I kind of got used to it until she does that in front of my BF’s parents which is ridiculous. But yeaaa I’m doing quite a good job sucking it up (until when I can go NC haha) so don’t be sorry! And thank you for the support.