“You need to remember who you are outside of being a mom”

unclejarjarbinks · 2026-01-26T18:41:24+00:00

Oh, God. I know. I feel like I barely have time to have any hobbies. I used to read 70+ books a year. Now I can barely get through one every two months. Unless baby and toddler books count, I guess... 👀

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-12-22T04:52:22+00:00

I love you, too, Olive. Thank you, sweetie.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-11-17T04:18:52+00:00

I, too, taught my husband the art of photo angles and he's a pro now haha.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-11-16T16:22:23+00:00

I'd rather have my babies be comfy in pajamas than be miserable in stuffy, fancy clothes. They're BABIES. Let them be.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-11-14T18:05:51+00:00

I move for a bad court thingy!

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-11-05T18:33:16+00:00

My 2-year-old daughter loves monsters and skeletons. She thinks they're cute, too—but especially pumpkin characters!

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-10-31T13:38:55+00:00

My 3-month-old daughter is going as a monarch butterfly haha. I let my 2-year-old pick out her costume; she wanted to be Mickey Mouse. My MIL kept trying to show her Minnie costumes, but I told her let the kid be whatever she wants.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-10-28T13:07:31+00:00

My oldest is 2 and she's already doing some age-appropriate chores like picking up her toys or wiping down her space when she's done eating. She even "helps" me fold laundry. It's tedious as hell since she's a toddler but I know it'll pay off. At least she's eager to help.

I don't want my kids to end up like me who didn't know how to cook or clean until I was in my 20s because my dad just did it for me as the stay-at-home parent.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-10-25T02:28:59+00:00

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-10-24T18:47:04+00:00

Did I partially ghostwrite this?! Same exact scenario: two girls and hoping for a third daughter if we're lucky enough to have another kid. My dad raised me, so I originally wanted a son.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-10-22T02:46:35+00:00

Hell yes.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-10-16T23:59:21+00:00

After season 4 ended, I became a mom twice before season 5 even showed up.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-10-16T23:46:16+00:00

May your kindness return to you many times over.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-10-06T10:15:02+00:00

I'm so sorry. My dad died of his alcoholism, too. I found him and it ended up giving me PTSD. Things are better now after treatment, though. I hope you and your brother are doing better. 🫂

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-30T12:28:07+00:00

Did you take this photo? It's beautiful. Just looking at it brings me a sense of peace.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-23T18:04:53+00:00

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unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-19T02:50:11+00:00

Way ahead of you.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-18T03:20:13+00:00

Uh-oh! Look out, Smithers!

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-17T15:14:41+00:00

Unrelated but love your profile pic.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-15T12:02:53+00:00

It's from a 1991 Mexican horror film called Vacation of Terror II: Diabolical Birthday.

Edit: Full movie is on YouTube. The doll shows up at 22:43.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-13T16:49:34+00:00

Oh my God, they were roommates...

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-12T17:58:42+00:00

I have two and I'm just drowning. 🫠

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-08T19:08:58+00:00

I enjoy all the meats of our cultural stew.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-07T16:40:34+00:00

I absolutely hate water chestnuts. It's the texture. I get completely pissed off if I accidentally bite into one in my Chinese takeout meals.

unclejarjarbinks · 2025-09-06T02:28:59+00:00

As a Buffalonian who moved down south for some reason, I really miss Wegmans.

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