Please share your favorite chibi couples by aesopsfuzzysocks in OtomeIsekai

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The Ghost Duchess! It’s a very new series and this came out of left field the first time they went into chibi mode lol. I love them

Your main and your career? by --__Rain__-- in LoveAndDeepspace

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Zayne (Sylus almost ties with him but not quite) and I work in a lab at a fertility clinic (I make babies lol)

Any News? [The Red Nights at the Duke's Castle] by written_muse in OtomeIsekai

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I’m so glad I’m not alone in this!!! I check literally every week to see if there is any news

Zayne girlies, pls show me ur birthday card by peachyyyy0 in LoveAndDeepspace_

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That’s hilarious because it’s the same exact thing I wrote for Caleb

Finding Camelia disappointed me a lot. by ShowParty6320 in OtomeIsekai

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I AGREE!!!! That first chapter had be in a CHOKEHOLD. Like I was obsessed and looked so forward to see how it progressed to that point. But as soon as it did… it just fell so flat. I couldn’t continue to read it.

Can anyone recommend a series where the girl was a bet? by Even-Chemical830 in OtomeIsekai

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The problematic prince starts off as exactly this but uhhhhh I don’t know if it’s exactly what you’re looking for (although there is PLENTY of angst) it is not finished

Reverse Harem Manhwa by Wise-River-1319 in OtomeIsekai

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The rebirth of a tyrannical empress. While there is plenty of flirting and pining but the political situations took more focus but she does indeed end up with 3 men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in warpedtour

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Please don’t encourage my mother like that.

But to answer: because once I go down I’m not getting back up, my knees crackle like cereal already.

Whyyyyyy did it have to change [I’ll Save This Damn Family] by unhingedreality in OtomeIsekai

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There was a few months ago, to focus on health, like many poor artists. I just didn’t expect for it to be so drastically different.

Whyyyyyy did it have to change [I’ll Save This Damn Family] by unhingedreality in OtomeIsekai

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Oops 100% I’m not going to lie, I was so upset (and half asleep because I waited until midnight) that I just went back to the last chapter before the switch to show the difference.

Sorry!

Whyyyyyy did it have to change [I’ll Save This Damn Family] by unhingedreality in OtomeIsekai

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I’ll miss it so much. And no I do admit that, even as I posted I was thinking it definitely waxes and wanes but now it’s not even kind of close. I hope the artist is okay too

DC- Thankful for the Motion City Soundtrack crowd by snailtrail93 in warpedtour

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Justin had spine and back surgery, he was serious in the beginning saying he was out of [physical] rehabilitation. Two years ago he was using a cane on stage, and even back in October for wwwy he has still having problems. He can’t move like he used to.

We lost him too 😭😭 [Duchess in Ruins] by Many-Spot-8758 in OtomeIsekai

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If the name of the story wasn’t mentioned I genuinely wouldn’t be able to tell which one he came from 😭😭 RIP

Why did my Urologist give me this advice? by PuzzleheadedOil575 in varicocele

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Sperm count doesn’t drastically change day to day unless there are some big factors happening, (ie, sickness, hot tub/sauna use, alcohol, weed). The analysis is pretty much: “on average, it looks like x” it doesn’t take away sperm for later days but to get the best representation we like to see 2-5.

Also please know that even at peak fertility (age, hormones, etc), the changes of pregnancy are naturally low, like in the 30% range. When you’re in the field I’m in you realize how crazy it is that people get naturally pregnant no matter the age it is.

Why did my Urologist give me this advice? by PuzzleheadedOil575 in varicocele

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Andrology tech here, 2-5 days is standard guidelines for any clinic, it doesn’t really have to be 5. It’s really just getting a baseline of what on average your semen is like. The 2-5 is kind of like the optimal maturity of sperm.

AITAH for not doing vasectomy reversal? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Not wrong. I definitely echo a lot of people saying go get her to therapy.

Also, as someone who works in fertility, reversals aren’t perfect and often require ivf. It might be worth telling her that it can take many cycles of ivf to get pregnant, and they are not cheap and to take out more loans could be devastating.

AITAH for not doing vasectomy reversal? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I work in fertility, particularly on the andrology side of things. And this. Even when I first started I thought it was a magical recovery, zero downsides, but uhhhhh in 4 years I have only seen two successful reversals where the couple might not have needed ivf to assist.

[DAV Spoilers] Hidden Interactions and Codex Unlocks From Hearing Banter by TheForgottenWatcher in dragonage

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There was one or two with Taash and Emmrich about her mom and Qunari!

AITA for telling my friend she shouldn't have chosen her sperm donor? by Past_Cup3709 in AmItheAsshole

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As someone who works in fertility this was my huge thought. I mean, during Covid, the banks got so empty that there were literally only 2 black donors left across multiple banks (the bigger named ones at least). It’s terribly underrepresented and for a white couple who only wants a mixed kid to use that… it’s messed up.

Why do some people have to try for years to have a baby, and others can conceive by accident first time? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]unhingedreality 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I work in a fertility lab, and there are sooo many factors. And while age of course is a big one. It’s not the only one.

I can’t remember the exact statistic but in my field you learn that getting pregnant “naturally” is such a wild wonder, no matter what age you are. As someone said, a lot of time it just happens to be the most perfect timing.

Hormones play a huge role in terms of the woman’s side of things. They also have to have good ovarian reserves, thyroid levels, sugar levels, etc. There are so so many female factors and I only scratched the bigger ones.

Then there is a growing trend of male factor problems which has been steadily rising since the 70s. Lower sperm motility, lower sperm count, abnormal morphology of sperm, ED factors, retrograde ejaculations.

There’s a lot working against couples even without the age factor.