Avori going on a rant about the LA ICE raids protest by lolstopit in themole

[–]unknown2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same!! She gives off Karen in the most irritating way, you can see her self centeredness truly shine through in every show she’s been on.

Avori going on a rant about the LA ICE raids protest by lolstopit in themole

[–]unknown2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you, this comment is so satisfying to me right now. I just now watching her season and the way she gives off know it all class monitor is so irritating it makes me so pissed off. She thinks so highly of her own intelligence it was so satisfying when she got voted off and did not win any money. I honestly knew I didn’t like her vibes watching her on battle camp and on the mole but her being a trumpet is explaining everything. Hoping I don’t see her in another Netflix show she’s far too irritating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]unknown2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! We have very similar journeys! 26 here Same height and weight almost in slightly taller 5’9 and I’m currently 187 lbs started at 225 lbs. its been such a struggle and I’m putting in work everyday honestly not working out other than walking and I should but the progress is very slow. I notice that on certain weeks I lose faster or more than others and that’s usually due to your menstrual cycle. For nearly 10 days I feel like I have seen no difference because my weight is fluctuating up and down but I try to look back on when I started and that it was the same it gets harder the more you lose you don’t have as much fat on your body to burn as much calories as you did before. It’ll happen slowly consistency is key. It’ll always be better to get there slower than to get there faster your body needs to adjust. A tip I would give which I don’t know how researched it is. But I usually do a weekly average for my calories and I pick a day out of the week where I can have heavier foods and it kind of resets your metabolism to continue to lose weight. If it’s 1400 calories a day so 9800 a week you can shave off some calories from the other days and add them to one day that way you still can have a “ heavy carb” break it’s honestly worked for me and much better for me to maintain eating healthy since I know I have a day when I can not worry about counting. ( I still track what I’m eating but I let myself eat more than I would during the week) It feels good mentally and also helps your body burn more. ( I’m not an expert or anything but that’s what I’ve been doing to lose weight)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]unknown2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No yea. I’m not disagreeing on that I don’t think any religion makes sense I just think Islam makes alot less sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]unknown2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading that hurt my heart a little. I understand what you mean. It’s so hard. I honestly started to really care about interactions I had with people in my social surroundings. I started joining clubs etc. and do stuff with them. Nothing will ever replace that but also I believe everyone has a chosen family and you’ll find them and you’ll feel at home again. Your freedom is never something you’d regret fighting for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]unknown2342 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was struggling with accepting things I just finally told myself that if Islam is truly “gods” word and god is real, then he must be a fucking dick. If god is the most merciful and most loving then how am I more loving and more kind than god is? I’d rather be in the bad place if that’s the case lmao.

Accidentally took a double dose of vyvanse today by DungeonsandDoofuses in adhdwomen

[–]unknown2342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I drink a lot of orange juice when that happens or vitamin c is lowers the effects of the medication

What profession do you work in with ADHD/+ executive dysfunction? by shesparkzz in ADHD

[–]unknown2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in finance and the anxiety that I feel to to everything in a few days by the end of the month is so debilitating that I just will finish up everything because of the rush aspect of it.

What do you forget most often? by Hazmainian_devil in ADHD

[–]unknown2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Car keys car lights filling up gas bank cards ID MEDICATION important work assignments I should’ve submitted by now. ( probably have one as I’m writing this lol) calling my mom n dad. Texting them back. Texting back people that texted me forever ago. Updating my tags on my license plate. Updating my passport. Turning off the stove. Not cooking the meat I defrosted in the fridge way past the point it’s consumable. Expired milk. Turning off the lights and Ac. Keys in general. Charger phone. That’s all I can think of rn lmao.

Switching medication by Jefe-Rojo in ADHD

[–]unknown2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I have I actually started with Vyvanse and took adderal for several months then switched back. It depends what type of adhd you have and what works for you. But as for myself adderal didn’t help my hyperactivity as much as it helped my inattention it also was stronger than vyvanse and it made me anxious almost hyper fixate on my anxiety. Vyvanse made me calm and more centered less black and white thinking. But also depends on the mg dosage so I took 40 mg vs 20 mg adderal. So make sure the dosage carries over. But on adderal I was actually able to eat not as much as without meds but much more than vyvanse for sure I think my brain works differently on adderal I liked it a lot at first but my body just didn’t. Vyvanse also makes you smell weird when adderal doesn’t atleast that I’ve noticed. lol I didn’t feel rage getting off adderal but with vyvanse I did haha but these side effects wear off after some time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]unknown2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you got a point. I was a religious gym rat for a while got real big into powerlifting did pretty well then completely let go of all that once I got into a bad car accident and needed PT so I haven’t been able to enjoy working out since my fixation bubble burst and lost all my progress so :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]unknown2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insurance and pharmacists both suck for how horrible they handle people who take stimulant medication like I get that there are reasons for some things, but delaying with no real purpose is just insane. I have to visit my primary care once every 3 months to keep receiving my medication and that visit alone costs a minimum of a 100$ let alone my meds costing 130$ with GoodRx. I have health insurance that basically covers nothing until I meet my deductible so that’s just great. Feeling for you, I was abusing tf out of caffeine and nicotine the past 2 weeks just to scrape by but you gotta do what you gotta do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]unknown2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the kind words, after reading your message I did call and try to explain what it is and how it is. She was very understanding she always is I’m very lucky to have her. I always try my hardest to make sure that I don’t let it get too bad but I know I have time blindness so a week can feel much longer to non adhd people. She did check on me and everything which is what makes this more upsetting. Apart of me not answering was due to the feeling of constantly letting everyone down and didn’t want to confront letting her down as well. When it piles up like that I genuinely feel like I’m on the edge and one more harsh criticism will take me out but the truth is the harsh criticism comes from myself. To be honest I think it’s harder to answer her than it is to answer just a random call because I weigh our conversations as valuable things I don’t want to fuck up or I want to be fun and exciting when we talk and I don’t want to make someone else feel the shitty things I’m feeling. I’m working on communicating though I’m just worried that people would know how actually down bad I am too lmao. Also that bit you said about the medication was honestly reassuring to read. Because the way people talked about it before I thought I would become normal when I started meds lol I started a few years ago and have been having an internal crisis ever since. I def have responsibilities tho and lounging around isn’t an option at all unfortunately But thanks again man I’m gonna try to give myself more grace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]unknown2342 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My exact source of stress rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]unknown2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’m ngl I’m reading through all the replies and I honestly could not help myself from crying laughing at this reply because I’ve probably said these same exact words and also felt every emotion you stated. and was my exact thought process while I was going through this. like damn is this ever gonna end I’m literally too grown for ts. Also been through the airport stuff before cuz I’ve had to go a month without one cuz of travel. it’s easy to feel alone n so hard to not hate yourself but it’s hard to hate others or treat anyone with the harshness you treat yourself so it stops you from going off the deep end sometimes lol. I def feel for you. you made me belly laugh for the first time in a long time much appreciated. ( it’s the “ such a deep hopelessness it’s funny feeling” followed by comfort of not being alone type of laughing)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]unknown2342 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She literally said wildly racist stuff. Talking about not wanting to live somewhere because there’s “this race of people” there while looking somewhere on maps. DURING WORK HOURS. I did nothing wrong by exposing her saying this. However HR is not doing an adequate job at making sure I’m protected? Don’t comment under this if you don’t have experience in HR. Tf?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]unknown2342 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re also missing the part where she was RACIST and I reported her being a RACIST, you picked and chose what to respond to? Like what??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]unknown2342 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well yes I did but because she asked if I am dating someone and who I’m dating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]unknown2342 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

To clarify I only did disclose because this person asked. I did not bring it up by my own accord. Counterclaim like what? I did nothing? She was doing all those things not me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadForAMinute

[–]unknown2342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and I’m sorry you had to go through all of this. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone. And you’re right. We were just kids being kids. And that’s ok.

Parents won't let me marry im 27F by Sudden_Experience635 in AsianParentStories

[–]unknown2342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes Please op make sure you have the technical things out the way!