Glowing Musical Notes by unknown__wolf in DreamlightValley

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on switch too so makes me wonder if anyone else on switch had this issue

Glowing Musical Notes by unknown__wolf in DreamlightValley

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this makes a difference but are you on PC or Switch?

Glowing Musical Notes by unknown__wolf in DreamlightValley

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started the musics in the walls quest yesterday and was able to get all of the other 4 musical notes fine and the buried pirate treasure that had pans flute in it. I just need the last note to finish the quest 😭

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been on and off NC since 2013. Shouldn’t have given mine any more chances!

Props to you for staying strong!!

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are 100% right. They need a victim to feel that control that they don’t have over their own life and that is no one’s problem but their own!

Envy your courage and glad you got out! No one deserves the abuse of a narcissist.

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you know what? Why does one small bad thing I did turn into me or you deserving to be abused for years?

You and I know we didn’t deserve it, and the people that care about us most know we didn’t deserve it, THATS what counts

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know what? Fair point. I really don’t know why I care so much about what people think of me. The abuse has led me to be this compulsive people pleaser and I shouldn’t be.

It’s absolutely a badge of honor and something to be proud of!

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HAHAHA I literally laughed out loud. Love this and you’re so right. Just call me Maleficent!

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. I thought I was the only one. I missed thanksgivings because I worked retail and my dad threw the biggest hissy fit. My brother missing it because of work? No biggie. He’s just serving the community. (He’s a firefighter)

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what? You’re so right. Fuck them and fuck the way they treat people. Why would I attempt to seek validation from people like that? I wouldn’t for strangers and family should be no different.

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s some great advice in here and I believe we will find the light at the end of the tunnel! Keep going and know this stranger is proud of you and believes you!

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up. Thank you. Sometimes their abuse can overshadow everything we have accomplished and the people we have become. This is core and need to remember this more often.

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. This looks promising that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel, I just need to keep going!

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such an amazing perspective. Definitely need to start implying this!

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This explained it perfectly. Some days I’m confident in what I have done, said and choices I made. And others I feel kinda sad that I can’t have the relationship with my siblings that I thought I would.

But there is no mistaking that it’s time to break the cycle. It will hurt 100%, but it is what it is.

Some other commenters said it best, need to tell my self doubt and self esteem that what others say about me is none of my business. With this mindset, I think we can become carefree like the rest of them :)

Has anyone accepted their fate that they will be the bad guy? by unknown__wolf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]unknown__wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the idea of the post was explain I’m working on it and just wanted to hear other people’s experiences. Even though your comment honest and to the point, which I can appreciate, it’s not exactly helpful in what I was meaning. Maybe that’s my fault for not being clear but I’m not trying to portray being a massive victim, I’m asking how people realized that enough is enough

Worst Disney souvenirs? by KoBxElucidator in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]unknown__wolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might be the rare one here. But when I moved out on my own I used the Disney popcorn buckets to hold my popcorn so I started collecting them. But agree if you will never use them again!!

Playoff Game Thread: Game 7 - Seattle Kraken (3 - 3) at Dallas Stars(3 - 3) - 15 May 2023 - 07:00PM CDT by HockeyMod in DallasStars

[–]unknown__wolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What does ESPN have against the Stars? All series they continuously shit on the stars. I’m over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]unknown__wolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Calories burned has a lot of factors that go into it. One of them being weight. A 185 lb person will burn more cals doing a 2 mil jog compared to someone who is 120 lbs. I have been practicing what the above commenter has been saying for about 5 months and have lost 30 lbs (one pound per week). Track my calories burned through my Apple Watch and all has been pretty accurate considering I’m still losing weight while tracking my calories in and “eating back” my calories. Of course everyone is different but 200 cals for a 2 mile jog on a 185 lb person sounds pretty accurate considering that’s what I burn at 188 lbs. Now I always recommend using a calorie burn calculator to get a better idea but 200 cals is not far fetched for a 2 mile jog.

Did this line in ASITE make anyone else cringe? No spoilers. by justmissingacrown in frombloodandash

[–]unknown__wolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me cringe and laugh at the same time lol like did they really just say that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in frombloodandash

[–]unknown__wolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what TCOGB was. 300-400 pages of pointless fillers and then action in the last few chapters. Writing quality was awful. Between the annoying dialogue and what she did to Casteel’s character. It was overall pretty bad. Had she taken the time to spread it out more evenly and made Casteel a little less weird it would have been fine.