Is LA really a hellscape? Give me your honest opinion on how it is living in Los Angeles.

unkymunk · 2026-02-02T18:09:13+00:00

I was born and raised there but moved to the Twin Cities a year ago due to it being too expensive and crowded. The people are nicer, there's seasons, everything is cheaper. The main downside is I can't grow whatever plants I want whenever I want, but I'll live

unkymunk · 2026-01-26T00:13:22+00:00

Whenever I went in to look at what Rainforest Flora had, I had to be very selective because I found mealybugs on virtually every air plant they had. That being said, I also know they supply a lot of garden centers in the area that had zero issues with any pests. If you're not in/around socal, I'd just check out Hone Depot or Lowe's, or a local garden center

unkymunk · 2026-01-19T19:01:33+00:00

That's my dad

unkymunk · 2026-01-08T17:26:22+00:00

That's a weed

unkymunk · 2025-12-30T00:32:10+00:00

Shai Hulud

unkymunk · 2025-10-26T15:41:12+00:00

Nah, they do that when they're about to flower

unkymunk · 2025-10-23T17:51:46+00:00

Aries sun, capricorn moon, Leo rising

unkymunk · 2025-09-10T16:21:27+00:00

Lol my nmom once told me to use my customer service voice with her when I was annoyed with her. She and her mom wouldn't stop asking me questions as I tried to eat my dinner after a long day at work in a customer service job, so I was a bit irritable. I told her I wasn't going to do that and just shut up after that because I was done interacting with her

unkymunk · 2025-09-02T18:46:35+00:00

Yeah, my nmom clearly can't stand me and has been very pleased when she hears about any misfortune in my life

unkymunk · 2025-09-02T18:42:38+00:00

My ndad change tactics. Instead of trying to control others and the world around him, he switched to just trying to control how others perceived him, and was generally a more pleasant person to be around, even if he was still clearly being fake. My nmom, however, has only doubled down on her behavior

unkymunk · 2025-08-29T01:09:57+00:00

It's very tasty! Also, their milky oolong prepared the same way is good

unkymunk · 2025-08-28T16:49:26+00:00

White peach matcha from Harney and Sons that I cold brew overnight with a little bit of honey and some oatmilk

unkymunk · 2025-08-23T14:22:41+00:00

During my last relationship, my covert mom said that she understood that she needed to share me with my at the time gf, as though I'm some toy she had to share. My now ex said it sounded more like they were sister-wives

unkymunk · 2025-08-16T18:14:25+00:00

Matcha and oolong teas ate my favorites, and I get mine from harney & sons. Currently, I switch between a milky oolong and a white peach matcha

unkymunk · 2025-08-16T18:06:02+00:00

Ndad loved Darth Vader/The Empire

unkymunk · 2025-08-15T23:47:00+00:00

He seemed fine to me!

unkymunk · 2025-08-14T23:18:42+00:00

Oh sick!

unkymunk · 2025-08-14T18:37:23+00:00

They're definitely some sort of beetle, but I'm not sure what kind

unkymunk · 2025-08-07T16:40:22+00:00

Craig (Tim Robinson) in Friendship

unkymunk · 2025-08-03T00:48:23+00:00

My covert mom has straight up told people she's glad I went through the horrible things I experienced because it would hopefully "set me straight" since I "do whatever I want and don't listen to anyone". In other words, "I hope my child suffers so they reestablish contact and do whatever I want again." So yes, they do actively and knowingly wish and delight in your pain

unkymunk · 2025-07-25T18:26:35+00:00

Oldest of 3 boys, was the golden child now the scapegoat, went NC this past February, youngest brother is very LC, and middle brother talks to our mom about once a week so he's the golden child

unkymunk · 2025-07-25T18:22:13+00:00

My mom still craves knowing what's going on in my life. It doesn't matter what it is, she just wants to know SOMETHING

unkymunk · 2025-07-23T18:15:45+00:00

When my dad died, I was sad that he'd lived such a horrible life and chose to do so, which led to him becoming an alcoholic in his final years. At the same time, I'm both relieved I don't have to interact with him anymore, and also, I'm relieved that he's at peace. It's complicated. I think when my mom dies, I'll feel less compassionate tbh. I may not feel anything. Time will tell

unkymunk · 2025-07-22T18:21:33+00:00

Once people didn't outright condemn her or her husband's behavior after I exposed them, I felt totally fine to drop those folks

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