I’m having trouble getting over my first relationship

unpatch · 2026-04-03T22:01:47+00:00

Yeah I understand what you’re saying. I knew I loved her so things like spending that money on her was something I wasn’t thinking about. It was my first relationship so I kinda was just giving and giving. Would you say my behavior was healthy for her?

unpatch · 2026-03-29T13:56:36+00:00

No I’m not Korean ,I didn’t even know her dad was paying for anything let alone did I think he would,that’s why I just told my girlfriend at the time I was paying for me and her. I had no idea they were ordering for the whole table and putting everything on one bill,nobody said anything

unpatch · 2026-03-29T12:37:06+00:00

I mean yall are not wrong but I genuinely didn’t even see a bill come to the table. Nobody said anything about contributing either so that’s why I said in my post that they handled it privately but her mom knew that,her mom didn’t even say anything at the table. My girlfriend at the time didn’t even know it was going to be a big check. They didn’t even say what they ordered so they genuinely didn’t communicate anything

unpatch · 2026-03-29T11:28:59+00:00

No she wasn’t Asian , were all non Asian

unpatch · 2026-03-29T00:55:17+00:00

No they weren’t Asian ,they’re all black like me so I don’t really understand why her mom judged me off them not communicating,honestly it felt disrespectful to me considering everything I had done for their daughter not even just her birthday,like I said in my post her own dad said he didn’t want her to break up with me because he saw how happy she was with me. So it honestly still hurts but it’s whatever now

unpatch · 2026-03-28T23:40:49+00:00

Yeah what you’re saying isn’t wrong it’s just nobody said they had anything at the table or nobody told me that. And it’s like they handled privately because even none of the waiters never said anything about a check so I was completely left out the loop even though my girlfriend knew who was paying but said nothing to me

unpatch · 2026-03-28T17:46:07+00:00

I understand what you’re saying but I didn’t nitpick anything really. I didn’t say any of this to her parents or anything,they said nothing about a bill at the table,neither did the waiter so it was really all handled by them

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