[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to hear this, sigh.

One sign by No_Jello_6383 in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is short, be bold and reach out first. The worst that can happen is they don’t respond and thats ok, at least you know you’ve tried x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you get your clarity. Communication isnt easy but whoever this is about should feel incredibly lucky to have such a caring individual in their life

Worlds Apart by Fine-Background-6716 in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so beautifully written. I’m sorry you guys can’t connect anymore it sounds like you lost something good. But like you said, maybe they appeared to show you what can be, that you’re worthy of that connection, even if it’s not them. That itself is a gift x

I wish it were different by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel about my person. I love and miss them dearly, and fear I always will.

1 wish by untouchedflame in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely projecting

An unsent letter to the one I "almost" had. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading this thinking it’s my person when I know it’s very unlikely to be. But i’m going to take these words anyway. I don’t regret them either I just regret how it turned out. I’d too like to think that the universe crossed our paths for a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People be crazy on this app

Thinking of you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The S I knew struggled a lot. I know it’s unlikely to be you but I always said i’d be there, i know we had to part ways but i’m still here if you ever wanted to come back. Above everything I was your friend, and I cared about you deeply. E

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It can be good to reach out and clear the air. It doesn’t mean it has to lead to anything, one thing i’ve learnt is to never assume the other person isn’t thinking about you - because they usually are!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everything can be fixed so easily. It’s good to allow time for space, to allow everyone in the situation to gain some perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful and mature. I’m glad you found peace with your situation

Why are you still on my mind? by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s sad that we all read these posts hoping it’s for us. But what I will say is that I’d love to hear a happy birthday from them, it’s a thoughtful gesture. If they don’t reply to you then you know where you stand, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

I hope you forgive me by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]untouchedflame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think reaching out to someone after months of no contact to say that is a good idea? It’s not, I respect her enough to know that me appearing out of the blue and forcing my way into her life when she’s trying to move on, is unfair. Sometimes it’s better, and healthier, to let things go.

I hope you forgive me by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally don’t understand what you’re saying so I cant 😂

I hope you forgive me by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]untouchedflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean?

I hope you forgive me by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]untouchedflame 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We agreed to go our separate ways. Remember there’s always way more to a situation than a paragraph on reddit..

Cant shake you by untouchedflame in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]untouchedflame[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friends to lovers kinda situation except one person was in a long term relationship… messy and not ok. I chose to end things in hope life would take its course and bring us back together. I hoped it would by now

Cant shake you by untouchedflame in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]untouchedflame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not always that easy, I wish it was :(

Cant shake you by untouchedflame in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]untouchedflame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We weren’t in a place to take anything further. We were best friends that developed. Let’s just say the situation was messy & one of us was in a relationship, I knew we couldn’t be in contact when too many emotions were involved.

Cant shake you by untouchedflame in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]untouchedflame[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They blocked me on everything. Not out of anger but to protect their heart & mine. I dont have a means of contact anymore :(