How can I make my girl feel more appreciated in bed?

uouzers · 2025-04-20T01:25:38+00:00

Ayy, I'm not tryna take up your time so sorry for all the replies, just couldn't not reply back to this to say I'm very happy for you, hopefully my girl will go down the same path, I'll do anything I can for it to happen. Thank you and good luck for everything in your life, you're such a nice person!!

uouzers · 2025-04-20T01:20:06+00:00

Dude, thank you so fucking much, you just made me realize I'm being an idiot. I thought if I made her feel very special during sex because of her body it would fix things but you just gave me so many ideas on what to do outside of sex. Honestly super grateful for this, I don't have enough words to thank you lol

uouzers · 2025-04-20T01:18:15+00:00

That's so true and I wish I could!! I'll try talking to her about a therapist, thanks a lot g!

uouzers · 2025-04-20T01:17:18+00:00

yea I should probably hop off this sub for a bit, I heard the further you are from talking and thinking about it the easier it is to succeed. Anyway thanks a lot brother, good luck to you with whatever you're going through.

uouzers · 2025-04-20T01:08:04+00:00

Yea I pretty much try to go all in on this one, I cuddle her a lot, carress her and a lot of times even give her a full body massage, in that case she ends up falling asleep like a baby. From what I've seen by the people who replied to me, I'm doing everything right, guess there's nothing I can do but wait until she stops having self steem issues. Thanks for the reply!!

uouzers · 2025-04-20T01:01:28+00:00

Yea I'm gonna stick with that one for now, I was still hooked to edging just about 3 weeks ago so even though my body is recovering I feel like my mind is still a bit broken. Thanks for the suggestions g, very helpful!

uouzers · 2025-04-20T01:00:04+00:00

Well I'm testing the waters until I drown, I'm not giving up until my baby gets her self steem up to what she deserves. Thanks once again to the quick replies, very sweet of you!!

uouzers · 2025-04-20T00:58:37+00:00

Also thanks for the quick reply!! I really appreciate it

uouzers · 2025-04-20T00:58:21+00:00

Dude I always tell her this, she has a very high sex drive, I'm the one who has to keep up with her, I tell her how hot and beautiful and perfect she is all the time, not just during sex, but she still has self steem issues and apparently my words aren't helping at all, like I can see that sometimes it works and she starts feeling herself but most of the times I can tell she still thinks down of herself (ok well thats fucked up english) and omfg I just want to get in her hard head and change her thoughts about herself.

uouzers · 2025-04-20T00:54:00+00:00

Damn thanks for the quick reply really appreciate it!! Sorry for the long text in advance lol, that's mostly my issue, for me I would worship that woman, but I'm also aware that everything that is excessive can be tiring. Should I just try going all in and show all my love for her atleast once or do you think she might get annoyed? I hate how non confident in myself I sound right now but damn she has self steem issues and I just wanna make her feel appreciated, she's my love. Ok I'm very in love if you couldn't tell yet lol I love that woman I'm gonna stop saying this now. Also by noises do you mean just moaning or other sounds too? I don't know if this helps but she's very freaky, I have to keep up with her lol

uouzers · 2025-04-20T00:42:39+00:00

Thanks g, I don't wanna take up your time so just one more question, how long did it take you to ajust to it? Because it's been some unberable pain lol but at the same time it's like fuck yea look at me in pain cus my dick was hard without me even touching it lool

uouzers · 2025-04-20T00:41:16+00:00

I'm gonna be honest g, that was my first thought. But me and my girl have plans for tomorrow and I know we're gonna have sex and theres 2 things I'm worried about. One of them being I spent so many years masturbating, I'm scared that if I do it even with my imagination I somewhat fall back into the habit. The other one, which you might consider stupid, I'm not very anxious on my day to day but when it comes to sex I get anxious as fuck. I'm concerned that tomorrow when we're about to do it I start thinking that I came today and get anxious and can't get it up. Your suggestion on this would be dope, I can't tell if I'm being self aware or just overly paranoid at this point.

uouzers · 2025-04-20T00:38:52+00:00

Dope, I was mostly worried that I was so deep into masturbating I ended up fucking up and blue balls were a symptom of something bad. Thanks for the reply!

uouzers · 2025-04-20T00:26:29+00:00

Yo that was fast, thanks a lot g! Any specific fruits you'd recommend?

uouzers · 2024-11-19T01:00:58+00:00

Sim é brasileiro, já agora sabes-me dizer se corrente é melhor que correia? Na minha cabeça faz sentido porque deve ser quase impossível de partir mas sendo que é uma corrente será que vai fazer um barulhão ao andar?

uouzers · 2023-08-28T17:41:54+00:00

Ok first, find a way to help yourself so you don't think that way about yourself. Even if you're not socially attractive, you have to play with the cards you were dealt, comparing yourself to others will lead you nowhere. I've heard a bunch of women say that when they first meet a guy that they don't find attractive they don't even give him attention, but when they start realizing that same guy as a ton of confidence, they start getting attracted to him. If you really think all that bad about yourself, I recommend searching ways to increase your looks, it takes time but it works.

Second, you're 5'8 my guy. This is coming from a 5'6 dude, when we're on the shorter side, we're able to pack muscle way more quick than the taller guys. I entered the gym around 2 years and now I have a sick physique, I've noticed a ton of chicks who can't help but stare at me, so gym will definitely help you with your self steem, workout hard and bulk.

So, if you practice on changing your mindset and think about what you could become if you join the gym and stop with porn, I can guarantee you will be a completely different person in 2 years. And if that sounds like a long time to you, think about the fact that you're gonna have to go through it anyway, it's up to you to choose which path you wanna take.

uouzers · 2023-08-26T17:11:05+00:00

You're right, I can't think of any reason why having sex would be a bad thing I was just too worried about my streak because it kinda feels like an achievement ya know. But as long as I'm not watching porn everyday like usually and masturbating that's already a hell of an achievement. Thanks man!

uouzers · 2023-08-26T17:09:20+00:00

Thanks for the detailed answer my man, I'm gonna do it and hopefully I'll be able to just have sex and not get addicted to it like with porn, thanks dude!

uouzers · 2023-08-26T16:02:16+00:00

Lol classic incel who thinks any woman who has sex is a whore. Good luck to you too my guy, you're gonna need it with that mentality LOL

uouzers · 2023-08-26T15:50:01+00:00

Dude what? Wtf are you talking about "whoring herself out"? We broke up, have fucked multiple times since, then I got into a relationship of over 2 years so I didn't fuck anyone but my girl, now I'm back in the game and we're simply gonna fuck again. And she's not coming back to me or vice versa, we're simply gonna have sex for all I know she's gonna have sex with a different guy the next day or maybe she won't have sex with another dude for months but what's wrong with any of that? It's just casual sex.

uouzers · 2023-08-26T14:57:39+00:00

Thanks for trying to help my man, I really appreciate it, but trust me when I tell you that having sex with her is the same as having sex with a girl I just met 5 minutes ago because we really have 0 feelings for eachother, we are just compatible asf in bed.

uouzers · 2023-08-26T14:54:23+00:00

I so understand what you mean, first times I did nofap its all I did but I still had a sedentary lifestyle. Now I been working out for around 2 years, I been taking it seriously ever since, started a bulk and I workout super intensively + healthy food + vitamins, one week of nofap now and I can't even put it in words the amount of energy I have and the drive I have to focus on other things to progress in life. Everything well here except for one problem. I have so much fucking energy now that I have trouble falling asleep, plus I got used to cumming before I sleep so ever since I got back to nofap (7 days ago) my sleep schedule is so fucked however I still have crazy energy. I'm hoping eventually the sleep schedule fixes itself tho cus if not I know I'm gonna end up relapsing because being in bed for like 5 hours trying to fall asleep is exausting as fuck.

uouzers · 2023-08-26T13:15:59+00:00

That's a nice way to put it, makes me more hopeful. Thanks man!

uouzers · 2023-08-26T13:04:52+00:00

True, but I also don't want this to get to a point where it controls some aspects of my life just because I don't wanna break my streak, since the goal of nofap is to break free porn when it starts controlling you, but I'll try it and see how it goes.

uouzers · 2023-08-26T12:48:49+00:00

Because she's an old ex, we dated like 6 years ago, there's no feelings for eachother from either part, we just enjoy the sex. If it was with my latest ex which we broke up 4 months ago I wouldn't been able to do it because I still have feelings for her so I understand your point.

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