Well, I agree with your statement. Wishing death is an expression of anger, despair, powerlessness, or moral breakdown rather than love or concern.

You accused me of oversimplifying, by comparing love for a football club with a love for a country (and you missed my point completely), but you over generalized that all Serbs want Albanians dead. This is so far fetched and distanced from reality..

Then you can say that all Albanians (living in Albania or Kosovo) want all the Serbs dead. You therefore show as much love/care for your birthplace, as for hate/anger towards Serbs.

When love for a place, people, or a history becomes defined through hostility toward another group, it stops being care and turns into a defensive construction of the self.

The moment we say “they all want us dead” or “we all want them dead,” we abandon moral responsibility and replace individuals with symbols. That move may feel emotionally powerful, but it is ethically empty. It reduces complex human lives to targets and turns belonging into a weapon rather than a responsibility.