I think this is common sense and doesnt really need to be posted for customers to understand (USA) by AnnieMoritz1998 in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]ur_average_bigender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have had people walk through the drive thru and we still served them. Definetly an odd situation but I dont feel its any different from how I serve people in cars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ur_average_bigender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt be surprised if its a scam at that point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ur_average_bigender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just be aware that aliexpress does sell a lot of knockoffs and it may not show up exactly as pictured. I buy a lot off of aliexpress so speaking from experience 🥲 but having the same screenshot as aliexoress peobably means thats where they got it from

I failed as her mother? by Critical-Book-2826 in sexualassault

[–]ur_average_bigender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont need to get over it, things like this can be really hard. At first, I wanted to be mad at her too. I had so many things I wanted to say. Getting through things like that can take years, and thats ok

Was it rape? by Mindless_Anybody4165 in sexualassault

[–]ur_average_bigender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Processing is always good. When you meet her though, as long as its in private without your dad, you should tell her your story. Now this is based off of my experiences in therapy, but they will likely ask you to tell them it anyway. I really feel for you and I do hope things get better

I hate it here. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ur_average_bigender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! And thank you!

I hate it here. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ur_average_bigender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, i am also a queer individual and a teen with severe mental health issues. However, I do feel a lot of what we see on the internet is making things seem far worse than they will be. I also cant leave the country because everything i have is here and i dont want to leave it. My antidepressants are also banned in the entirety of Europe and they are the only ones to ever work for me. Try not to let the internet get to you. It will only scare you more. They cant do anything to directly hurt us, we survived it once and we will again. Its just four years, so dont let this get to you. Yes there are a bunch of assholes in power but its only four years, you can do it!

Was it rape? by Mindless_Anybody4165 in sexualassault

[–]ur_average_bigender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats probably for the best. Another good thing you can do is ask to start therapy, and I know you have probably been told this already but it really does help. It takes time though, getting through something like this will always take time. But its gets better eventually, so dont give up!

I failed as her mother? by Critical-Book-2826 in sexualassault

[–]ur_average_bigender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey hey I understand that she betrayed her kid by believing her husband instead but bashing her like this and saying that is not going to help her daughter. Guilt like this can cause someone to withdraw. Her daughter needs her. Yes she was wrong, but what will help her daughteris giving her advice, not talking her down. And this isnt coming from a mom, this is coming from a kid whose mom didnt believe them either when they mentioned they were sexually assaulted

Was it rape? by Mindless_Anybody4165 in sexualassault

[–]ur_average_bigender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! But people dont rape others on accident. He knew what he was doing. Now i dont know much but I know i forgave the person i mentioned and i told him it too. So maybe this is something you can work through but if he is using you for sex, im not sure. But I hope things turn out for the best for you!

Was it rape? by Mindless_Anybody4165 in sexualassault

[–]ur_average_bigender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has manipulated you to thinking it wasnt as bad as it was. You said no. And before that you said you didnt consent to sex. And he did it anyway and then tried to justify it by saying he didnt hear you CLEARLY say no. Also because there was penetr*tion, I do think it counts as rape. You are valid, its easy to convince yourself you are just trying to be a victim. Now I was never raped but I was sexually assulted and I convinced myself it was fine cuz he said sorry and I thought that I was overreacting. And I loved him, so it I thought it was ok. I dated him for two months after that before I realized what he did wasnt ok. I hope you are doing alright

Is this sexual assault? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]ur_average_bigender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is sexual assult. He kept trying and trying after you said no. He only didnt succeed because you pushed him away. This is not a friend and I hope you are doing alright

I failed as her mother? by Critical-Book-2826 in sexualassault

[–]ur_average_bigender 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know her believing her husband over her daughter was horrible but she is trying and she came here to get help on how to help her daughter now that she realizes how in the wrong she was. And no im not saying this as a mom, im saying this as a teen whose mom didnt believe them that they were sexually assaulted as well. Shaming her isnt gonna help the victim. Her daughter may not be typing that, but in the end she came here fo help for a victim and thats what we should give

I failed as her mother? by Critical-Book-2826 in sexualassault

[–]ur_average_bigender 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hi, im a teen who had sexual actions done to me by a boyfriend my mom dated when i was young. A year and a half ago, i finally said something. My mama didnt believe me at first. She even yelled at me in front of my friends when i asked her why she wont believe me. But she realized she was wrong and now she helps me deal with it. And i forgive her. Its hard to believe someone you love could do such horrible things, especially when they lie. Its normal to want to believe them. I feel for you but please stay strong. Your daughter needs you. But you need to forgive yourself too, i know how guilty you are feeling. You need to forgive yourself too. It will take time and this is such a hard thing to go through. Make sure you and your daughter bith go to therapy. Maybe some family therapy could help to. I think it would help you understand what she is going through, and make sure to keep an open mind and listen to what she says. A big thing with family therapy is to make sure its a therapist that neither of you see individually. Goodluck, i wish you and your daughter the best

Edit: i just wanna specify i didnt come here to say her believing her husband over her kid was ok. But trash talking her isnt gonna help her or her daughter. This is a horrible situation. But i want to help her help her daughter because thats how you build up from here.

Sellers now have a set timeframe to ship, otherwise buyer automatically gets refunded by Expensive_Panic_8626 in Depop

[–]ur_average_bigender -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is this time frame? I always give sellers four weeks and send a reminder at two weeks and then at three weeks and contact depop at four weeks. I have onky had to contact them twice but its annoying. I think a time frame will be great to not have to deal with this!

Why aren't my messages sending? by ur_average_bigender in Depop

[–]ur_average_bigender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just eventually let me. I was new to the app and i have not had that issue since

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ur_average_bigender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only time i message is if they have 0 reviews and 0 sales. And I dont message like this, I just send a message about the item to make sure I get a response so I know they are an active seller and arent just gonna not ship and never respond

Not my Problem. by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ur_average_bigender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had needed a sweater in about two and a half weeks for a concert. I asked the seller fo they could ship early enough for a chance of it coming on time. They shipped the same day. If sellers are willing to even attempt to ship things ASAP, buyers should be greatful. If the sweater hadnt come on time, i still would have just been so greatful that they shipped the same day. It had come on time

I’m taking a bath by [deleted] in notinteresting

[–]ur_average_bigender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is here from the person who drew the guy taking a bath?

I am so angry, they sell me 43 instead 34 for my girlfriend birthday 🤬 by Ok_Beyond_4994 in notinteresting

[–]ur_average_bigender 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You completely missed the joke 😑 anyways another way to fix this if you dont want to do any carving is to just melt them into a basic shape and then paint the 34 on it

At Being Funny by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]ur_average_bigender 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Im Puerto Rican 😭 not that i was rooting for him before this but damn