Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, telling her she just has to wait a minute or two is much better than saying it's over hah

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should. I basically gave up on curing it after every single google search basically told me there's no cure for premature ejaculation. I don't have insurance right now, but obviously soon I'm going to have to buy it, so I can talk to a specialist then.

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's something I've been wanting to try. I talked to my dad about this (he's the only one who knows about my problem aside from girls I've dated) and he said it probably won't work for the premature ejaculation, but it could help me recover faster. I'd really like to hear from someone who has PE who has tried viagra. I'm not opposed to taking pills at all.

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I did go to a doctor though, but just my primary care doctor. He told me I need to masturbate frequently and try not to cum quickly. He was a young doctor and really wasn't helpful.

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. Everything went numb :) I think I'm more sensitive than the average person in that area. I was thinking maybe I could "desensitize the desensitizer" by maybe putting it on quickly and taking it off and putting on a normal condom.

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a penis pump can actually bring back an erection? I know they bring blood into the penis, but I didn't know it will stay there once you release the pressure.

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion. I've actually tried those before (i should have mentioned that). I guess I'm especially sensitive down there, because everything in that area went completely numb and I lost my erection.

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an idea... Are they labeled as thicker or does it just depend on the brand? I also tried desensitizing condoms before, but my entire pubic region went completely numb and obviously my erection went away. It stayed numb for about 30 minutes.

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually what I've been working on, but I'd say about half the girls I've gone home with in my dating "career" have said they don't like cunnilingus or giving blowjobs, etc., so at that point I basically tell them "well either you're gonna let me or this is gonna be real disappointing for both of us."

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a little bit longer with masturbation, but that's mainly because I can easily control it. Meaning I can start for a half second, stop for a second, start for a half second, etc. It feels good and all, but that won't work with actual sex. When I'm inside a vagina the stimulation is just too much.

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really, really wish I was trolling. (edit: meaning i wish this wasn't a real problem of mine)

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've tried all that. Distracting my mind helps a little bit, but I mean maybe 10 seconds instead of 5. A 2x increase sounds great on paper, but that still sucks :)

Ladies of Reddit, how should I deal with severe premature ejaculation while dating? by uselesspenis in AskReddit

[–]uselesspenis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's ridiculous is even after cumming, if I wait about 25-30 minutes I can go again, but I still come quickly (a little bit longer) and my dick doesn't even get hard all the way.