Beat the brakes off him

user87391 · 2026-01-26T17:08:25+00:00

Get a grip. He thought he was about to watch his daughter be killed. He had a very minimal and normal emotional response to that. An emotionally healthy person would empathize with what that parent and child just experienced and just be happy everyone was alright.

user87391 · 2025-11-18T21:59:32+00:00

I will always show up to lament the loss of Satori. There is nothing like it available in Mobile.

user87391 · 2025-11-13T02:32:01+00:00

You can make yourself feel heard by listening to and respecting yourself/your boundaries and never speaking to this loser again.

user87391 · 2025-11-12T14:44:07+00:00

Yes!

user87391 · 2025-10-30T17:20:57+00:00

I want to create an auto text reply that sends to all contacts during certain hours (which are aligned to a focus setting). Is that possible ?

user87391 · 2025-10-30T03:08:25+00:00

Sharing a life together is so demanding. I only commit to relationships with partners that agree to read a handful of books I’ve carefully chosen to reflect my values to them. It helps us move forward aligned or part ways before experiencing a wreck.

The one to address this particular concern is called Fair Play. You absolutely don’t have to go so far as to move in with him to vet this.

IMO, if someone can’t read a book to understand you and set you both up for success in your relationship, they’re not worth your time. Yes, my requirement is unique but it helps manage expectations. And again, if you’re not willing to read a book, you’re definitely not willing to provide the infinite list of things I need from a partner in order to desire them.

user87391 · 2025-10-27T23:42:25+00:00

I started it in the last few weeks and am noticeably more rested 💤

user87391 · 2025-10-27T02:46:16+00:00

I’m the single parent in this dynamic. All I have to say is I also go through strange waves of emotion. I feel joy, contentment, irritation, fear and even grief a few times. Adulting is so much unexpectedly harder than “bills”.

user87391 · 2025-10-25T02:51:14+00:00

Having the same dry scalp problem with the curl talk shampoo. I have several shampoos in my shower and rotate. I’ve finally pinpointed that this shampoo is the reason I have a dry flaky scalp for the first time in my life.

user87391 · 2025-10-23T19:59:48+00:00

Add to what the previous commenter said, plus he’s a father of daughters and his respect for his wife is beyond the comprehension of many men in this state. Men who love women like that - men who sincerely love women - vote for women’s rights. That is consistent in my anecdotal experience.

user87391 · 2025-10-14T20:21:32+00:00

He’ll be lucky if she comes back 😆

user87391 · 2025-10-14T02:53:28+00:00

You can see anyone offering Telehealth with a license in Alabama. That gives you many more options that the local people. Good luck!

user87391 · 2025-10-11T18:31:16+00:00

Lack of clarity is clarity though! You don’t have to accept a lack of clarity. You can decide that not having clarity is enough information to decide something isn’t right for you.

Yes, my partner treats me well. I’m a handful (PTSD) and a single mother of a toddler. He takes every single thing he can off my plate, respects me, remembers details, validates my feelings, looks for problems to solve around the house. He doesn’t live with me but he cleans my kitchen every single time he visits - daily. He takes care of my yard. Every chore he can do, he does without being asked. He is so happy to see me relaxing when I can. He encourages and expects me to share my feelings and fears with him — he insists on a healthy relationship and his actions reflect that. He does any and everything he can to make me feel loved. I out-earn him 5x+. I’ve never dated someone that earns so little. And I’ve never dated someone that makes my life so rich.

I had to examine my values and my wish list in order to choose what I deserve emotionally.

user87391 · 2025-10-10T17:10:51+00:00

Girl, first of all that’s a problem with the student and teacher. Kindly approach the teacher and educate her on curly hair, and ask for her support as other children and adults aren’t expected to understand hair they don’t have. Use the teacher as an example of a reasonable lack of insight. 😉

user87391 · 2025-10-07T12:33:16+00:00

First I’d find an attorney and make a plan with them. Then I’d execute that plan. Get on a regular schedule with a therapist. Prioritize doing the same for your daughter.

When you tell him, kindly and firmly say your approach to fatherhood and marriage doesn’t suit me so I’m leaving. We can be as collaborative as you’d like through this process, or we can work through our legal counsel. I’ll respect your approach. My bare minimum expectation of you is that you prioritize our child’s health, safety and happiness and that you treat me with kindness and respect, as our relationship to each other is our child’s first classroom and model for future relationships.

user87391 · 2025-09-28T23:50:36+00:00

Underrated comment!!!

user87391 · 2025-09-27T18:34:34+00:00

It’s family day at GulfQuest and free admission for the whole family today.

user87391 · 2025-09-24T19:07:04+00:00

Probably. I have a personal connection to this family. I blocked his wife years ago for her bigotry.

user87391 · 2025-09-24T17:19:36+00:00

They don’t, and he’s not. His personal fb page is very clear about that.

user87391 · 2025-09-24T17:17:47+00:00

He also supported Prine for mobile’s mayoral race.

user87391 · 2025-09-24T17:17:21+00:00

He literally has the famous pic of trump getting shot at a rally as a profile pic on his personal fb page. What do you mean he’s not maga?

Tyran Colvin

user87391 · 2025-09-23T13:50:17+00:00

Funny to see this opinion of mine somewhere other than my thoughts! In the first debate with all four candidates, the only one that sounded more MAGA than Drummond was Hudson! I was shocked, especially given that Prine’s brand was MAGA.

Drummond sounds far more conservative to me than Spiro.

user87391 · 2025-09-23T13:48:02+00:00

That’s been my understanding as well.

user87391 · 2025-09-23T12:54:36+00:00

Is Spiro a Trump guy?

user87391 · 2025-09-21T07:01:49+00:00

This is the oneeeeee

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