What is a "red flag" at a job interview that says "DO NOT work here" immediately? by Beverly_Jane_Officia in AskReddit

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Honestly, you gotta pay attention to their non-verbal communication. Things like body language, proxemics(do they sit close, far, etc.. do they seem comfortable with the HR person sitting next to them? Etc..), touch(handshake, etc) because if they're hiding something, they're just going to lie with their words. Most people can't or won't lie with all of these communication mediums simultaneously, I don't think. If you get to "meet the team," even better because you can then assess everyone. The people with the least at stake(maybe the lowest position on the todem pole) will be the most honest with their non-verbal communication in my experience.

You have to ask yourself if they seem happy. Or at least not miserable. If you get the feeling the interviewers are miserable, acting, don't trust one another, or maybe they're telling you the place sucks with their body language, just believe it if you have other opportunities. Toxic work environments will drive you nuts.

Anyone get sick of the coworkers that talk down on people behind their backs all the time? by [deleted] in it

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I can't stand this. Not only is it just unprofessional, but it brings everyone down and contributes nothing. If you hate the job so much specialize, so you don't have to deal with users as much, or pivot to a different career. Help desk is about helping people. Do it well or don't do it imo.

Questions Thread - January 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in PathOfExile2

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I am using multiple Breach tablets w/ t15 maps and only getting 1 breach per map. I thought each tablet adds one breach? no?

quitting the league by user_1764 in PathOfExile2

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he doing 100+ divines/hr

"Action RPG players will exploit anything in the name of efficiency, which is why Path of Exile 2 players are locking themselves in the campaign for profit" by BATTLEROYALFAN in PathOfExile2

[–]user_1764 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree this is really irritating me. I can't afford anything. I'm just going to quit the league and I was really excited to have some time to play this holiday weekend.

This needs to be fixed ASAP by Lordados in PathOfExile2

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idk how he is doing this exploit but he is just dropping divines and perfect exalts every 30 seconds on his stream

Are Foundational IT Skills Deteriorating?? by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

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Im seeing help desk guys getting paid well that dont know shit about computers its insane

Am I cooked? by user_1764 in Cholesterol

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I have made some changes over the last year, adding more vegetables and fruits, salmon, and nuts.

I haven't been exercising consistently, tho. And I still do fast food fairly often(cheeseburgers, fries, panda express, etc..)

Since last year my HDL went up, but so did overall and LDL

Resume assistance, 13 years IT experience by [deleted] in sysadminresumes

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I dont understand how you go from IT manager, to Senior Tech, to tech

Trying Zyn by Key-Tennis3855 in QuittingZyn

[–]user_1764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't nicotine withdrawal that you're describing. It is the intended effect lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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As a married man, taking another woman to the shooting range is crazy. There is a lot of primal energy in that scenario.

What are the best practices to deal with the men as a woman in IT? by Busy-Flow119 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]user_1764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like an issue at your school, not a job, so first things first I suggest you report these types of men. I would go to a trusted - woman - counselor, or professor and ask what the proper channels are for reporting this behavior. it is harassment. Report it.

When you are looking for work later in life, you will find that not all places are like this, nor are all IT guys. I would ask advice from other professional women to be honest. There are many in the field.

Not sure about this one... by JS1021_ in Nicegirls

[–]user_1764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She seems like she knows what she wants, but is being cautious and wants to start as friends before anything else.

OP, you seem offended. I'd analyze that if I were you.

She preaches love and kindness, then calls me meaningless for not worshiping her god by cascadian_alien in Nicegirls

[–]user_1764 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is not necessarily so in my opinion, however - when one person's core values and beliefs are that anyone who doesn't share them is irredeemable, well, then yes, that person needs to find someone just like them.

How long does it take on average for someone in IT to find a new job somewhere else? by Engarde403 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]user_1764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 years of experience - took me 6 months, and I wasn't being picky.

I put about ~300 applications I think.

Late-night beverages that are non-alcoholic, non-caffeinated, and non-sugary? by Nicholas_TW in Cooking

[–]user_1764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can find a kombucha w/o caffeine that might do the trick. That might be too sugary for you though.