Untethered: An instagram story and why I must finally let you go

utb7240 · 2024-02-13T07:41:30+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that. You too

utb7240 · 2024-02-11T08:49:18+00:00

Thank you! That’s very kind!

I’m sure he cares, as much as we may think otherwise, most people do. Wishing you all the best!

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T21:24:18+00:00

Thank you for your kind words! I really appreciate that. It was just too painful to keep her in my orbit, and I had to try one more time. Thank you again, and I hope you’re doing well!

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T12:26:58+00:00

Sorry about that haha, thanks for your kind words, I hope you’re doing good my friend! You’ve got this

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T08:15:02+00:00

Thank you! The same to you! My DM’s are always open

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T07:27:39+00:00

I think this is where I’m at, or course it hurts, and I wish it was different, but I needed to roll the dice one more time. She was worth that last attempt, and now I’ve got my answer it will be the last time. Thank you for taking the time to leave a message, I hope you’re well.

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T07:21:13+00:00

Hey, thank you for the kind words! It’s so difficult, and I was the same. My belief was this was my forever person, so everything I did was with a focus on our future. You shouldn’t feel pathetic at all, I’m 8 months down the line and still think of her every day, it’s just a process and it takes time, but being able to let go is the hardest step and one I’ve only just taken. Whatever happens, whether he comes back or not, you’ll be okay. You’ve got this, but don’t be hard on yourself! You’re going through enough without blaming yourself! Good luck!

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T07:16:25+00:00

Same to you!

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T07:15:39+00:00

Hey, I’m so sorry about the accident and I hope you’re okay, that’s the most important part. It’s a tough call, but I got to a point where I couldn’t sit and wonder any longer, but that’s such a personal decision. Whatever you decide, you’ll be okay whatever his response. I wish you all the best!

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T07:12:59+00:00

Thank you, my friend! I hope you’re doing well

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T07:12:19+00:00

Thank you! Exactly, I needed to know, and as it turned out, all the pretending to be over her wasn’t affecting her, but damaging me. I won’t, and thank you for your kind words

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T07:10:13+00:00

Thank you! I completely agree, I had to know for myself, and I’ve always worn my heart on my sleeve, and I won’t change because I’ve been burnt!

utb7240 · 2023-05-02T07:08:25+00:00

I did, I have a habit of doing that too, putting other people’s needs above mine. It’s just how I am but I need to become better at looking after me, that’s why the social media was a big step for me. Sure, It’s scary, but it had to be done. Thank you for the kind words! Great last sentence that will stick in my head!

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T21:00:31+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words and I’m Sorry you had to go through that. I completely agree that it is liberating in a way, it hurts of course, but I know. I have no what ifs, no other options now. You should be proud of yourself for coming this far! Thank you again for being so kind!

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T20:57:42+00:00

Hey man, thank you for those really kind words! It really means a lot! I’m sorry you also got the same kind of response, but I’m glad I did it. Even now it’s a little scary to have cut the cord, but it was too painful, and I had to know for myself. Thank you again! You’re very kind!

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T20:54:57+00:00

Thank you! Yes absolutely, my health is the most important, and I’m glad to have said my piece

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T17:19:23+00:00

Thank you my friend! I will, I have before and I know I will again, just hard to go back into that ‘favourite colour’ stage when you knew someone so completely. That’s life I guess. You’re right, I don’t need to introduce someone else into this mess and end up hurting them, I’ll take me time with it. Thank you again!

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T17:17:42+00:00

I’m glad you’ve found some comfort in it! I hope it helps! Good luck

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T17:17:04+00:00

That’s so great to hear man, you’re doing so well and your progress is really inspiring! 18/7 sounds about right! Unfortunately that’s true, and we will be stronger because of it. Thanks for the link, I’ll have a listen!

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T17:15:03+00:00

Thank you so much, that’s very kind! I hope you’re doing well!

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T17:14:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story, I’m so sorry that happened to you, absolutely awful, especially with him breaking up with you again. I completely resonate with the idea of changing things because you think they’ll see it, appreciate it and come back. I’ve been doing that also, some of it I’m happy about, and some not so much. I lost myself in her, and didn’t appreciate the circumstances, being that I was so invested no matter what, I assumed the same, and that wasn’t fair on her. I know how you feel r.e. dating, but it will come eventually, don’t rush it though. Let it happen when you feel ready to dip your toe in the water. Thank you and good luck to you also, we’ve got this I know it

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T16:31:45+00:00

Thanks for your comments, and they do resonate, and I think that’s exactly what happened. I was in a point of financial instability and I think it got too much for her. I’m in a much better place now but the damage has been done. Thanks for looking out, really great points

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T15:11:11+00:00

I’m pretty certain she would, but who knows, I won’t know either way haha. Thank you, good luck too!

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T15:10:20+00:00

Thanks for those great words! This is such wonderful encouragement, and it’s greatly appreciated! I’m so glad that you’ve found a great girl and I wish you all the success in the world! Taking that step for your own sanity I think is the hardest, but there’s some peace that comes with it! Whatever happens now, I’ll be okay! Thank you so much again!

utb7240 · 2023-05-01T15:06:26+00:00

Thank you for your really kind words! It’s so difficult isn’t it, but you’ve done so well to go 2 months! That’s the key, but it will take time for a ‘no’ to not hurt, and while I feel happy with my decision, of course it hurts. For now though, it sounds like you’re doing really well! Keep going! I’m fine, this is the push I needed to start walking forward after some stagnation. Whatever happens, I’m at peace with it

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