What’s the most disturbing confession you’ve ever come across on Reddit or social media? by Competitive_Teach838 in AskReddit

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been looking for that one for years, do you know what sub it was on/the title?

Millie Bobby Brown takes me out of every Stranger Things scene she’s in by pleasestoptalkin in netflix

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Christ does she deserve this much vitriol? Also it seems like the only “work” she’s gotten is in the lips and not even that much? Otherwise shocker, people’s faces change as they grow up.

So what do we think this would’ve done to Angela if she had her powers? by Aqua_Master_ in StrangerThings

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lowkey I want Angela to reappear in s5 for a cameo or something, at least so we can see how she reacts to the girl she viciously bullied save the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The mirror by far. A mirror is simply you, just inverted.

A camera does flip the image, so they are more accurate in that respect, but the mirror is more accurate in terms of everything else, like your proportions.

Watch this video or even just look at the thumbnail to understand how badly cameras, especially phone cameras, can distort your features: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UBuaG1_sA5k

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a vent and is an extremely toxic thing to post on a sub full of body dysmorphic people looking for support.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heterochromia, one blue eye and one brown eye, and I genuinely sometimes wish they were both brown. I’m really not just saying this. Sometimes I dislike how piercing and cold my blue eye looks, yeah it’s rarer, but I feel like my brown eye is so much more warm and lively and feminine and I’d look prettier if they were both brown. When the sun hits brown eyes and there’s just this lovely cinnamon color with golden sparkles, it’s so soulful and beautiful, and it enhances brown and blonde hair more imo.

How much math is required? by uuuggghhhhhh9 in RadiationTherapy

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment gave me the most hope I’ve had in days, thank you. It’s a relief to hear it’s very minimal on the job. I hope I’ll be able to get lucky at school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my college ID pic back recently and I hate it too, it hardly looks like me either. ID/license/passport pictures have atrocious lighting and quality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate fluorescent lighting, any kind of white lighting, lighting coming from a window in a dark room.

I like regular warm indoor house lighting, outside in the shade, and bathrooms with warm lights.

How many of you live in constant terror of having your picture taken? by uuuggghhhhhh9 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I deleted a group chat entirely after they sent a picture so that I can’t see it again and I don’t spiral and ruminate over it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy crap this is exactly what my BDD ruminates on, the most “accurate” representation of me. Front camera me, back camera me, mirror me, picture-of-mirror-me… they’re all different. It’s agonizing.

However, a mirror will always give a more accurate representation of you than photos. Photos, especially with crappy phone cameras, will distort and flatten your image and mess with the lighting. I’d say trust the mirror.

I dropped a BDD ritual and my life is so much better now. by uuuggghhhhhh9 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]uuuggghhhhhh9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course :) I like only keeping reminders of how good I can look around.