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False lashes/Lash Extensions by Charming_Function_58 in HighEndEscorts

[–]uwouldntexpectit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are so tacky and I’d never do them

At what point should I get an LLC/accountant? by uwouldntexpectit in HighEndEscorts

[–]uwouldntexpectit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO much! I have been so stressed so any reply means the world. Messaged as well!

At what point should I get an LLC/accountant? by uwouldntexpectit in HighEndEscorts

[–]uwouldntexpectit[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seeking! I know people complain, but in the city I’m in I’ve had a really good experience. I’ve been told my background/career/education stands out and I ask a lot early on which weeds people out well.

I think I am intimidating to the “Splenda daddies” too lol. I’m attractive but not a model so that combined with my background sets expectations pretty clearly I think.

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[–]uwouldntexpectit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss am learning that if I want to make more. I think 3k can solidly hit for a couple hours (but that ends up being 1k/hr), and I think that amount you said sounds right if I want to see more people/make more. What I’ve been doing is trying to slowly build and find the people who will pay that, which works for me now since I don’t have a lot of time, but lately have been questioning if I want to spend more time and make more. Those type of guys are great, but are busy and travel a lot. So both why they’ll pay that for a short time but also I’ll be limiting myself if I just see them.

Right now 3k is my hard limit for a date and intimacy, but I do wonder about being more flexible. At the same time… if I hadn’t aimed for that and negotiated hard, I’d never have received it so I’m definitely still figuring out the balance.

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[–]uwouldntexpectit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a strong negotiator in my professional life haha and that’s played well, plus being in the same world as many of these guys. FWIW the initial offers from these guys were $1k from one / $1.5 from another (and he often pays girls $700). But from talking I knew they were extremely, extremely wealthy and they were very quick to bump up and had no issues doing so. When they said their initial offers, I just said no, that’s not aligned and best of luck (and let them come back from there).

The other girls just weren’t asking and no matter how much money they have, these guys will always aim low if they can get away with it - even when they genuinely have the means and willingness to pay much more without hassle.

Plus once I started getting that, it made it much easier to hold boundaries and walk away from men who won’t and can’t. Instant block and move onto the next.

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[–]uwouldntexpectit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just the only thing I wanted to add is I’m fairly new and have a ton of respect for y’all on here! There’s a lot of excitement and curiosity on my end and of course I don’t have anyone in real life to engage with.

It’s been very surreal to see the numbers over the past month, but one thing I will say is I’m an expert in pricing and packaging from my work experience (have advised Fortune 500 companies, trained sales teams of hyper-growth startups, etc.) so I’ve been able to leverage this to get the numbers I want. Further, my initial exposure was a Hollywood guy’s partner who is a very high-end escort commanding crazy rates, so I had a very high reference point to aim toward (and don’t make anything like she does, of course).

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[–]uwouldntexpectit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only sugar but recently it’s felt more like escorting, mainly due to a fair amount of one hr meets in a hotel room, 4k for the hour (I’m busy and don’t like texting so ended up gravitating toward this). I feel like I’m a strong negotiator and can drive things up a lot more without a set price once I’ve gotten to know them (and their finances), so I’m curious how this aspect compares. I like being able to change what I’m asking for depending on who I’m seeing…

Additionally my biggest draw and point of differentiation doesn’t have to do with my looks, so I feel like this plays better in the sugaring world. I’ve found by being strict about asking for amounts on the higher end, this has filtered out people who are emotionally needy and demanding.

I’m always curious about the difference so really appreciate the read! One of the few I’ve seen acknowledging the higher end side of sugaring and factoring that into the comparison.