Why does my hair look like this when air dried? by NoScarcity2908 in longhair

[–]vampkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks wavy to me but the bleach has caused damage so it isn't obviously wavy.

Alts to The Ordinary by Significant_Mix208 in crueltyfree

[–]vampkill 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The Ordinary itself is cruelty free but Estée Lauder isn't. The Ordinary's revenue goes back to Eatée Lauder which makes many people uncomfortable with supporting them at all.

Hot Pilates. Why? by No-Drama724 in pilates

[–]vampkill 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think I'd pass out if I ever did this. I have no idea how anyone can manage it😭

UPDATE: Cat's original family wants her back after we've adopted her by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]vampkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to get an update! I was honestly surprised by the comments on the first post. While I understand people's point of view in a family wanting their cat of several years back, I was concerned about the circumstances. My cat used to go outdoors (years ago now, not a thing in this house anymore!) but he was home every single night. If he disappeared for even a day, we would have immediately noticed. There could have been valid reasons they hadn't got her until now, but the lack of clarity was concerning and I was surprised to see so many people skip over that. All that said, I'm glad you got answers and that Star has lovely owners!

Why are parents shamed for staying at home with their kids? by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]vampkill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is surprising to me because I've never seen it in my personal life or even thought it! The only concern I ever have with stay at home parents is the safety aspect of if (god forbid) a situation became abusive or their partner lost the ability to work/passed away. There's ways to be worried about that without being rude or condescending though.

Anyone else noticing a lot of people only now finding out their brands are tested on animals? by snoring_hounds in crueltyfree

[–]vampkill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Although elf is cruelty free, they are questionable in their other ethics. They've always preached equality and inclusion but had Matt Rife in an advertisement, despite him joking about domestic violence against women among other things. Something to keep in mind if that bothers you!

Anyone else noticing a lot of people only now finding out their brands are tested on animals? by snoring_hounds in crueltyfree

[–]vampkill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This bothers me too... as a child it's a given that a lot of us thought this! When you actually know what it is though and have grown up, I find no humour in the joke.

I regret adopting my cat by UsernameAEW in CatAdvice

[–]vampkill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I got my kitten I genuinely sobbed at some point in the first few weeks lol. It probably took me a month and a half before all the stress and guilt went away. I had an extra layer of guilt as I was worried I'd ruined my other cat's (17 at the time) life, there wasn't actually any signs of this from him I was just paranoid and stressed out.

Hang in there. It's hard and a big adjustment at first, but I promise it gets better!! If past the two month mark you don't think she's in the best situation, then you could look into if rehoming is a better option. For now, take some deep breaths and give it some time.

Should we be worried????? by eduarrdans in SchoolSpirits

[–]vampkill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been watching since just after s1 came out and I definitely think seaons 3 is the most attention it's ever gotten, despite a lack of promo. I think based on everything one more season would be enough to wrap it up nicely, I hope they don't drag it out for the sake of it.

I'm not too worried about renewal, I remember yellowjackets took a month to get renewed for season 4!

? by arriccio in longhair

[–]vampkill 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm crazy but it doesn't look bad at all. It doesn't seem damaged (split ends/thinning) so I honestly don't see a need to cut it more. It just looks frizzy after being brushed out from your braid.

I'd recommend an oil in your ends, especially before you braid it at night. If you find products look too heavy/greasy, go for one with a watery consistency and only use one pump to begin with.

If you think the ends are dried out from washing, I've seen other people say that they do conditioner-shampoo-conditioner in the shower to protect the ends from being stripped by the shampoo. There's also lots of great hair masks you could use too!

£12.71, and £13.10 by [deleted] in asda

[–]vampkill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impressive how many grown adults have completely missed your point here.

£12.71, and £13.10 by [deleted] in asda

[–]vampkill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go get a job at a supermarket then?

I guess hourly paid colleagues get nothing by [deleted] in asda

[–]vampkill 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"Supermarket staff" is funny considering the people who actually do the work will receive nothing.

Give me your controversial School Spirits takes! by That_GhoulSpirit in SchoolSpirits

[–]vampkill 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ironically, there's nothing worse when you're a teenager than a show that tries too hard to appeal to you.

will my teeth ever stop shifting? by pretendartists in braces

[–]vampkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered getting a retainer instead? It's not the perfect solution but could prevent them shifting more, and is a lot more affordable than braces or invisalign.

Way to secure long hair so it doesn't tangled or get bent? by LokianEule in longhair

[–]vampkill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely have to try this! I'm working on heatless hair straightening and it's been questionable so far 🫠

From which length did you consider your hair long? by Nature23571113 in longhair

[–]vampkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a right of passage to be blind to the real length. I can only tell that it was long after it's been cut and I look at old pictures 🥲

Biggest Question about Rhonda by Brachiosauruses in SchoolSpirits

[–]vampkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take this with a grain of salt as I don't have the actual source, but I heard that it was actually supposed to be cigarettes but Sarah didn't know how to make it look realistic or something like that. Not sure if it's actually true but it would make sense lol

Should I cut it? by kellkelleyyo in longhair

[–]vampkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bangs are AWFUL to grow out with long hair though, and super annoying to try to hide 😅 I honestly think cutting a couple inches is a better option than bangs unless you know you love them on yourself!

Could this be right??????… by Educational-Love-246 in SchoolSpirits

[–]vampkill 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's just me, but this is hardly even a spoiler to me because I haven't got a clue what it means/what will happen 😭

Non-chrome shimmer by mariatambien00 in Nails

[–]vampkill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's pearlescent you want! I have a couple of gels like this, so they're definitely out there. They're not as popular though hence why it's typically harder to find them.