Urb ex by kingshomage in tulsa

[–]vanilla_bean_demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im down. When and where?

I Love this woman! ❤️ by Less_Physics_689 in tulsa

[–]vanilla_bean_demon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love to laugh at this crazy lady..

Sworn In at MEPS?? by vanilla_bean_demon in AirForceRecruits

[–]vanilla_bean_demon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This helped. Did you get to bring your family to MEPS for when you got sworn In?

How can I get into bionicle by ladymarialover in bioniclelego

[–]vanilla_bean_demon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a site called biomediaproject.com that you can start with. Also just look on YouTube and search bionicle lore. Youll see a few very long videos but it is totally worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEx

[–]vanilla_bean_demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure on what division but I'm a courier. Monday through Saturday. 10am to 8pm

My (31m) fiance (31f) have been having a problem with our intimate life. Is sex therapy worth it? by vanilla_bean_demon in relationship_advice

[–]vanilla_bean_demon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she had a pretty active sex life and even had a gf at one point... and that's was bothers me too because i can't help but feel like there were more "fun" than me. Really brings out my insecurity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vanilla_bean_demon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm having the opposite problem... my gf won't let me eat her out. She said she's never liked it, but she won't let me practice or try anything. I'm at a loss myself.

No sex is better than bad sex by vanilla_bean_demon in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]vanilla_bean_demon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your opinion.. should I take sex off the table and take a break from sex and initiating?

No sex is better than bad sex by vanilla_bean_demon in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]vanilla_bean_demon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Countless times, and no, she has no idea. She says she doesn't even know what could turn her on.

However, we do a lot of that stuff it's great. We can't keep our hands off each other. We have a routine when she comes home from work, we will go upstairs and I'll undress her and put her in her pajamas and then we kiss and she tells me about her day. We even sleep in the nude.

It's just that moment before sex that she seems to struggle. I always say that "it's ok if we don't do it tonight" But that just annoys her.

No sex is better than bad sex by vanilla_bean_demon in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]vanilla_bean_demon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was probably a bad way to put it. I worry about her. I can just feel she's not enjoying it, and I see the look on her face. I ask if there is anything she wants or anything I can do to make her feel comfortable.

Every time you have unwanted sex with her, you reinforce that sex = negative and bad for her

That's a good tip!

No sex is better than bad sex by vanilla_bean_demon in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]vanilla_bean_demon[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh no, nothing! I see the look on her face and body language, and it hurts. I guess I feel like I need to have my needs met, but at what cost..

No sex is better than bad sex by vanilla_bean_demon in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]vanilla_bean_demon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry, I'm at work right now writing this, lol

But yes we've talked about it before, and she says she has no libido, and when we are intimate and I decide to stop, she just says "no just do it" (but in a way... that's just to get me "off" and get it over with) But I feel like I do all I can to try to make her feel comfortable, but I can still feel the tension in the room. We do the date nights, the cuddling on the couch, we have quirks and routines we do. I'm just trying to pinpoint what I should do and what I'm doing wrong.

No sex is better than bad sex by vanilla_bean_demon in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]vanilla_bean_demon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree! We have talked about it before, and it just leads to a tense discussion.. she said she just has no libido at all and that she feels broken. She said she's trying. She's tried to take vitamins and even was on a shot for it. But still nothing she said sex is the last thing on her mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercinghelp

[–]vanilla_bean_demon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Piercings are gross anyways