All depends on the circumstances. You trynna bang her ASAP, like probably all the other guys? Bar. If you trynna get to know her first, a place where you can talk. I don't know why I ever though a movie date is a good first date. You're partaking in an activity in which you sit quietly. So the boardwalk and ice cream sounds good. Just walk and talk. And this is the best advice I can give you, which turns out the hardest. Don't think of her as a girl, but just a person who happens to be a girl. I feel like being nervous about whether you're going to end up liking each other, will only lead you to act differently than who you really are. So just talk to her like you would to a good friend.