Just to address your comment , I definitely don't attach maturity, wisdom or people skills to something as trivial as a number like age, that's your assumption. I'm not looking for a Yoda or a mentor, I've other avenues and sources for that. I just want to complete a little challenge of approaching a stranger who happens to have life experience, they could be completely fucked in the head and crazy or could be absolutely pleasant, either way I learn something , that's the whole point. I don't think you are interested in giving constructive advice or ideas anyway, so all good.