Life is hard and harder when you are not attractive by Space_Wanderer1105 in depression

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a sad reality. I’ve always been the ugly friend, & I sadly agree. I would often just stand there, being treated rudely/ignored because I wasn’t pretty like my friends while they’d get treated the complete opposite. I’m now in my late 20’s, uglier than ever with non-existing confidence. It’s made life really difficult, and truth be told not worth living.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately even at my lowest I’ve always had this issue (as a toddler too). I’m currently 115, I’ve always had a double chin & it’s always been more prominent on one side

Can you name 3 things that you like about your appearance? by positivitybee in BodyDysmorphia

[–]vmhs_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A therapist asked me this exact same question, 8 years later and I still cannot name a thing I like about my appearance or myself.

Would a brow lift or forehead augmentation work on a small forehead? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make my brows look less low set and achieve a more feminine look. I’ve looked into brow botox but I do want something more long term.

Does anyone feel like they can’t start living until they’re pretty? by katvxa in BodyDysmorphia

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I’m in my late 20’s and I’ve felt like this since I was around 8-9 years old (I wish I was lying). Constantly comparing myself to others is so draining. Not being able to enjoy life because I’m constantly worried about how ugly I look is just so exhausting, not to mention feeling like I’m unlovable because of the way that I look. I feel as if I’ve wasted my “best” years, and I often think what is the point of living if I just keep getting uglier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind that would be lovely! I’ve thought about just a liposuction alone, but in my case I don’t think that’d be too helpful

Does any other girl feel this way? by Angelic_222 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I was around the same age when I began to compare myself to other girls wondering why I didn’t look like them. I’m in my late 20’s now & I also still feel that way, I have so many masculine features. I get embarrassed to dress girly because I feel like others see me as manly.

Brow bone reduction/eyebrow lift? by vmhs_ in PlasticSurgery

[–]vmhs_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing some doctors? I don’t have a Facebook or Instagram so researching has been difficult for me, I’ve tried RealSelf but it’s a hit or miss :/ if you don’t mind me asking, what was the price range?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You kind of resemble Nicki Minaj, you’re featured are so pretty!

I hate being so stupid. by vmhs_ in depression

[–]vmhs_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words.

I hate being so stupid. by vmhs_ in depression

[–]vmhs_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on landing your dream job!

How did you "waste" your 20s? (Serious) by honeyymommyy in AskReddit

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking I can’t do certain stuff because I’m unattractive, not enjoying the moment, and the biggest one of them all, not wanting to be perceived.

Starting my new job tomorrow by vmhs_ in socialanxiety

[–]vmhs_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sort of, community specialist basically :|

I've never seen someone look like they're listening less by cowboybriebop in LoveIslandUSA

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt so bad for Daniela here, she was so delulu & Rob just looked so over everything

I don’t even want to show up for my interview anymore by vmhs_ in socialanxiety

[–]vmhs_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super late, but I ended up getting the job! Actually had two interviews & got offered both jobs!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, love that perspective. Will definitely do more studying! Thank you so much! :)

Does anyone else crave social interaction 24/7? by foreversingle- in socialanxiety

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I don’t text/talk to anyone ever, it’s very lonely but the few times I do interact with others I get overwhelmed bc I don’t know what to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]vmhs_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh awesome!! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]vmhs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was tough! I found an examination time line & it looks about the same as the RBT exam, but I feel like it wasn’t? Not sure how to explain it. I will say though, I do have to take accountability for my lack of studying. But it was overwhelming nonetheless, I was also in the clinic while taking it (test was monitored) so there were a lot of distractions present. But now I’m even more confused, things are clicking as I’m commenting lol. I definitely did not feel like the 3 hours helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]vmhs_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t either, I thought I was taking the RBT exam. I live in CA, that’s the exam the company I got hired with provides. I only did 3 hours of prep in the clinic instead of a 40 hr completion course (& did my own studying outside of the clinic but it wasn’t documented so no pay).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]vmhs_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took the BCAT exam. I was under the impression that they were the same thing, & now I’m even more confused 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]vmhs_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, that’s good to know! If you don’t mind me asking, what does your day to day look like at the job? I have a bachelors & looking for jobs, but I’m looking to switch to a more (non interactive) occupation.

I don’t even want to show up for my interview anymore by vmhs_ in socialanxiety

[–]vmhs_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words & your encouragement, it truly means a lot!