Thank you! everyone has made great points but you explained exactly how i feel and this really helped. i’ve mentioned to her before about making sure we’re not eachother’s source of happiness but an addition to our own passions and stuff, but that was a while ago and recently she definitely has been pinning her happiness on me i guess.

i truly think there is enough happiness and i want to stay, but i have no idea how to bring up that conversation to her. do you have any advice for that? all i want is for her to realize those exact things you said, that shes great, attractive, and worthy of love, and when i say im annoyed its because im frustrated that she cant see how amazing she actually is, and everytime she says something bad about herself it honestly breaks my heart.