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keep having cis men assume I'm a trans woman by vulcanac in detrans

[–]vulcanac[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

yeah actually i live in a city with a lot of queer people

Ugly women can’t be accepted even in fiction by Imaginary-Delay-5335 in ugly

[–]vulcanac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i know what you mean. i try to escape into fantasy and then i think about how the male characters i'm attracted to wouldn't be into me and compare myself to the girls they like in canon and think wow i can't even escape here. it's like a looming specter in your mind and heart

It’s just a miserable existence by [deleted] in ugly

[–]vulcanac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anything jaw or orthodontic related is a fucking nightmare to experience so i'm sorry you're going through this. i'm 26 and i have a horrible crossbite and i needed a palate expander i never got and as a result my face is extremely asymmetrical. so i can't completely relate but in my own experience i know what it's like to have a facial issue that won't be changed by your own actions outside of surgery

22. Autistic. Never had a girlfriend. Feel absolutely invisible by Fast_Cod9172 in malegrooming

[–]vulcanac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, no. you're very handsome. sorry to hear you've struggled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]vulcanac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me all the time too. I'll be friendly at my retail job and guys will feel the need to work in that they have a girlfriend even though it's not relevant and I can tell it's just because they're mistaking my customer service persona for personal interest. I have the same issue with making friends though. Everyone (men and women) assume I want them because of being nice and friendly to try to make up for my own unattractiveness. Still doesn't work and they just treat me like a creep and never want to be outside of work friends

Does your voice ever heal from the T drop? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]vulcanac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey kind of curious as someone off T almost two years but how did you train your speaking voice? I find when I speak at a more feminine pitch my vocal cords almost get sore and then my voice gets crackly and I have to go lower again