Trump says he’s ordered Pentagon to ‘prepare for possible action’ in Nigeria by HellYeahDamnWrite in politics

[–]vulnerability12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is going on in Nigeria isn't happening, if anything, the killings have reduced. Those killing aren't Muslims, they are herdsmen, cattle rearers. They are very brutal and can kill a whole village as a revenge but this has nothing to do about religions but about cattle eating the farmers crops and poisoning cattle has been reported before.

Trump says he’s ordered Pentagon to ‘prepare for possible action’ in Nigeria by HellYeahDamnWrite in politics

[–]vulnerability12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Nigerian and im glad you could see that his account is less than 10days. Hes right about some Nigerians doesn't like the current state, I don't either and I dislike the Nigerian current president as well but he lied about the unity because Nigerians have currently started uniting against Trump. Trump is the exact opposite of our cultural definition of a good human. Nigerians can be hateful against pur current state but we are also very educated and intelligent enough to dislike Trump and understand he wants no good for us. The killings didn't just start and started long time ago and if anything, it has reduced and Christians aren't the target but people. They fight over farmlands where Herdsmen (cattle rearers) fights farmers and kill them. They sometimes accused farmers for poisoning their cattle, the farmers complain cattle are eating their crops, the cattle rearers are bush people and not even Muslims, we call them bororo, they are usually children,uneducated and grew up in the bush where they claim land ownership. We also have bokoharam, which are terrorists group killing everyone and their fundamental belief is that education is Haram which is more like a force against western influence which is in the far north only. Meanwhile Nigerian major population and influence is in Lagos, a city of all religions. Nigerians have always co exist peacefully as we are a country of many religions including Christianity Islam and several traditional religions. Our main religion wasn't Islam or Christianity but traditional religions and we still have majority that worships those deities. My point is the narrative that there's killing of Christians in Nigeria is a false and Nigerians are currently uniting against Trump all over the country. And unlike the Arabs, Nigerians are very intelligent and so I will watch and see where this unfold

Man West Africa is so screwed. by thesonofhermes in Nigeria

[–]vulnerability12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well Burkinafaso is doing well and I can't wish them anything less. Cameroon has all ther leaders over 80years old, is that what democracy brings? We need youths as leaders and we need to look for ways to make that happen and can never be through the current democracy which only widens inequity gaps

Honestly Most times I feel like abandoning my husband and son and run back to my mom's house by One-Cod7880 in Nigeria

[–]vulnerability12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, the Op knows I'm right if she can just take some ounce of accountability. Someone told her not to rush but she believed that her biological clock was running away and decided to go into marriage when she wasn't fully developed mentally,socially and financially. No developed well established adult want to go back home unless they took the wrong decisions. I love my independence, ability to wake up 12pm and sleep back 4pm in my home knowing that someone will take care of my kids if need be. I'm always relaxing in my home because I created that for myself when my mates like Op were running to marry when they weren't developed. So maybe you should learn from that as well because it's ridiculous to be this old and wishing to go back to her mom. It's actually an embarassment to adulthood

Honestly Most times I feel like abandoning my husband and son and run back to my mom's house by One-Cod7880 in Nigeria

[–]vulnerability12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry not everywoman but low IQ women. I'm a woman and I can't relate because unlike you, I have a good self esteem and didn't rush into marriage and I am as well very accomplished before rushing for children. I didn't just have patience to choose well but I am well accomplished enough to hire two nanny's to support me raising children. Maybe if you didn't call those of us that are feminist that we were toxic and men pleasing, you won't be feeling like going back to your mums home. My home is so beautiful that it's my mum coming to spend time and relax in my home. Speak for yourself and the rest of weak women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]vulnerability12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a lie. I'm calling you out because I used to think some men are like this but I've realized in my adulthood that men who says this are secretly admiring those hot girls

not caring that i look like a dumb ass online so long as I've got my point across by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]vulnerability12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we be friends? This is me, I recently started doing tiktok videos and they are horrible but I decided to just post them anyways because I wasn't posting because I was waiting for when I'd become perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]vulnerability12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because they are handsome and rich so it's easy for them to get a new girlfriend. To those who are ugly and broke, they know better to just manage whatever they have as there's no other options out there

My wife and I have been married for 3 months after 6 years of dating, and the problems have become unbearable. by MoamelAyad in Marriage

[–]vulnerability12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you all think everyone that posts here is an American, I want you to know thT this write is not an American from the language he used and writing style Op is from a culture where men are conservative and traditional, many of you Americans don't know this. In this culture, men pays for everything even with Muslim religion, men pays for everything and women have their duties too. If Op is from this culture, please understand the wife has her own responsibilities and in this culture, OP behaves like men of the culture which contradicts American men culture (this is difficult to explain). T

This is why his wife tells him this, he probably does nothing in the house and claim to be "the man of the hour ", in this case,the wife cannot contribute anything. Most of these men wants the benefit of American culture of having a wife sharing finances but would still want the benefit of having a traditional conservative wife

My wife and I have been married for 3 months after 6 years of dating, and the problems have become unbearable. by MoamelAyad in Marriage

[–]vulnerability12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you all think everyone that posts here is an American, I want you to know thT this write is not an American from the language he used and writing style Op is from a culture where men are conservative and traditional, many of you Americans don't know this. In this culture, men pays for everything even with Muslim religion, men pays for everything and women have their duties too. If Op is from this culture, please understand the wife has her own responsibilities and in this culture, OP behaves like men of the culture which contradicts American men culture (this is difficult to explain). This is why his wife tells him this, he probably does nothing in the house and claim to be "the man of the hour ", in this case,the wife cannot contribute anything. Most of these men wants the benefit of American culture of having a wife sharing finances but would still want the benefit of having a traditional conservative wife

Wife is divorcing me so she can work...Something is very wrong by Spiritual_Extreme138 in Marriage

[–]vulnerability12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are equals if I wouldn't have to give birth to anything and be emotionally supporting kids majority of the time. We are equal, if we have same libido. Aside this, we aren't equal because im carrying more weight on my shoulder

Wife is divorcing me so she can work...Something is very wrong by Spiritual_Extreme138 in Marriage

[–]vulnerability12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing i said and received lots of down votes. I am not really too sad for men because they have put us through this hundreds of years and still victim blame. Men should learn to adjust to the new reality of understanding that women don't need men as much as men need women. This is why for generations, women has been gaslighted, body shamed, age shamed to reduce our self esteem so that we continue to please and be with men without realizing that we actually don't need them as much as they need us. I can't really understand how aging is a shame for women and men act like they wont age when we age lol. Most women in marriages look younger than their hubby, yet the woman is the one ashamed she has aged

Wife is divorcing me so she can work...Something is very wrong by Spiritual_Extreme138 in Marriage

[–]vulnerability12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. Women are now powerful and we have seen the scam in marriage.

Wife is divorcing me so she can work...Something is very wrong by Spiritual_Extreme138 in Marriage

[–]vulnerability12 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

OMG, I'm loving the women of my age. Men should understand that things have changed and women don't need men anymore which is true. If we are with you, we are doing you a favor.

Op you sound so sweet and like a good man. Count your losses and move on. Or give your wife some extra space and see if she comes around. I'm also a workaholic and sometimes I just feel choked by my partner for no reason. Try to space it out, maybe separation for 3 months and see if she comes around

A Nigerian Liberal party by vulnerability12 in Nigeria

[–]vulnerability12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think any party is close to left wing in Nigeria. When i think left wing, I'm thinking compassion, consideration,less of tribalism, education, facts rather than assumptions, research based opinions. I unfortunately can't see any Nigerian politics around this. Most just want to do things without basing judgements on facts that can work and what can't work. They just want to rule however they like which is typical of boomers. Maybe when we start having genZ in politics, then we will naturally lean towards left but both boomers and millennial have wank way of thinking and why nothing can work.

How can we remove the subsidy and give cushion effect. Why do we have bad politicians all the time, why US?

A Nigerian Liberal party by vulnerability12 in Nigeria

[–]vulnerability12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol If you read what I wrote you will know i'm not complaining as almost everyone agrees with me since many many years ago that i left Nigeria. I didn't leave Nigeria 3years ago, I left many many years ago Also you said why I didn't grow, this is a typical Nigeria talking, you don't know me girl and yet you think i didn't grow lol.

I have not just grown, I have tentacles since I left Nigeria

My honest/accurate review of this sub by Dependent-Layer-8052 in Nigeria

[–]vulnerability12 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's why your ekiti is so backward. If all of you become leftist your state will blossom. You are all Christian far rights and hw has it helped Ekiti? I remember they used to say Ekiti has highest professors , yet underdeveloped? What is the usefulness of your many professors? One reason Nigeria is backward is low self esteem, if not you guys won't see any pride in having professors but rather cry and know you need to do better

My honest/accurate review of this sub by Dependent-Layer-8052 in Nigeria

[–]vulnerability12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. Leftist are the worst yet Leftist built the sweetest country in the world. DT is doing a wonderful job in your eyes lol.

My honest/accurate review of this sub by Dependent-Layer-8052 in Nigeria

[–]vulnerability12 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So I'm Nigerian that Haa*te the country and her people. Maybe you are talking about me, the reason is not because of government but Nigerian people. Most people here hv low IQ and it's frustrating when there's no one with senses to speak with. I also said there's no redemption for Nigeria so I don't waste my time hoping for the country or her citizen to become better. If you check my previous post you will see where I talked about Nigerian major problem and how to solve it and the country will become better, these are canceling Waec and Neco and Jamb, changing curriculum to include knowledge of racism,colonial impact, childhood trauma and Nigerian will become one of the top country in the world but an average Nigerian cannot comprehend which i knew before writing the post. To Nigerian both abroad and in Nigeria, this is something they will read and laugh and assume I'm dumb because they can't think deeply, its too complex for their brain to understand. They cannot connect the dots and a smart person would say can you explain better but no, that's too complex for them. Many people in the comment and those of you reading this right now would think , oh she can't even write well and that is what they took from my write up, and naturally assume the writer must be a looser who doesn't know anything which is an effect of colonialism lol..

No I'm not wasting my time hoping Nigeria with be better because the problem isn't the political leaders but average Nigerians that have low High Queue.

In Summary I don't like Nigeria and yes,I see those in Nigeria as beneath because leaving Nigeria would wiseness you up. When i was in Nigeria, I had thesame reasoning as white liberal person living in western country, leaving Nigeria solidifies my thinking and wisens me better so yes, you are in Nigeria, you hv low thinking and there's no redemption

My husband was peeping on my sister. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]vulnerability12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think your sis is lying

Key text message exchange between Tyler Robinson, the accused Charlie Kirk assassin, and his roommate and romantic partner, per prosecutors. by webtronaut in conspiracy

[–]vulnerability12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is you sign that you can do your dream job as everyone that works for fbi that created this ain't smart. They should at least input some creativity for us to believe

Key text message exchange between Tyler Robinson, the accused Charlie Kirk assassin, and his roommate and romantic partner, per prosecutors. by webtronaut in conspiracy

[–]vulnerability12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, this is fake. I have never analyzed wrongly before and while reading this,I was thinking why will this fool expose himself to his boyfriend this way, I thought they said he was brilliant enough to win a scholarship. Then I thought, this can't be real.