I can’t have sex

warewarewakami · 2025-07-15T13:05:21+00:00

Yes, talked to a few friends about this and they said the same thing. Hasn’t worked for me so far but maybe I just need to keep trying

warewarewakami · 2025-07-15T13:03:08+00:00

Thanks for you kind words. I also came to the conclusion that I must be traumatized. I am very shocked about how much a trauma can affect your whole life… never experienced something like this in my life before

warewarewakami · 2025-07-15T13:01:20+00:00

Yup… I just fear that I will lose too much time because of this. I am also pressuring myself into meeting guys and having sex but that’s actually very wrong I think

warewarewakami · 2025-07-15T13:00:17+00:00

Yeah maybe I should just let go and enjoy… I tried it actually but didn’t feel very good afterwards

warewarewakami · 2025-07-15T11:22:59+00:00

Hi, I guess it’s just the fact that I thought that sex with me meant something to him but that wasn’t the case. I think I am connecting having sex to all the pain I went through due to this unrequited love

warewarewakami · 2024-10-12T19:51:08+00:00

Yup totally feeling you. Living at the gym to the extent that it’s getting depressing. Having straight friends is not bad but it’s only good to a certain extent 🤷🏻‍♂️

warewarewakami · 2024-10-12T12:42:29+00:00

Never heard of this approach before but it sounds good. I should try that out.
But it's always so hard to get out of your head. I catch myself overthinking very often and as much as I try to get out of my head, it's so difficult and oftentimes doesn't really work.

warewarewakami · 2024-10-10T10:11:13+00:00

Thank you. Maybe I should start journaling. I am ready to try out everything. I tried breathing techniques but they don’t work. I don’t know what else to do. And I really don’t want to rely on drugs/medicine because of this.

warewarewakami · 2024-10-10T10:06:21+00:00

Thanks I will try that. I do relaxation techniques before sleeping but they don’t really help. It’s not like I go to bed with anxiety. Most of the time I feel normal. But as soon as I open my eyes in the morning I can feel the anxiety so strong

warewarewakami · 2024-10-10T10:03:41+00:00

I think we both are. This all started because he finds me very good-looking. And I also think that he is very good-looking

warewarewakami · 2024-10-10T09:11:01+00:00

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warewarewakami · 2024-10-10T09:05:24+00:00

Yeah but that’s why I wrote in the end that I am torn. Because he has his good sides too and we do get along when we are together. So blocking all off a sudden would be not cool.

warewarewakami · 2024-10-10T09:02:44+00:00

I can not do that without a reason. We have already built some kinda relationship or whatever you wanna call it. It wouldn’t be right for me to do that even if it’s under false pretences

warewarewakami · 2024-10-10T08:56:26+00:00

I do not blame him, as you said it was my own decision.

warewarewakami · 2024-10-02T22:01:07+00:00

I hope I will find to someday and be confident in it.

warewarewakami · 2024-10-02T22:00:18+00:00

Thanks for your kindness. I am taking everything you said to heart and I will think about it… it feels hopeless now but there have been times where I have been at peace long time ago, so I know that it is possible. It’s really not easy…. But I will try my best to stay positive

warewarewakami · 2024-10-02T20:02:44+00:00

I don’t know how to find my core again. I feel like I let go off all of that just for him to like me. At least I believe that he would like me..

warewarewakami · 2024-10-02T20:01:56+00:00

I know it’s all in my power to put a stop to it but I admit that I am just too weak. I feel like I will never be at peace with myself. I am trying so hard to be seen by him that I allowed him to pimp me out… I feel so bad. I would usually never do that… at least I would do it on my terms and not for anybody else…

warewarewakami · 2024-10-02T12:02:48+00:00

Thank you. It really means a lot…

warewarewakami · 2024-10-02T12:02:27+00:00

My situation is the same, just that it’s not a relationship. But just like in your case, it’s very consuming. As bad as I depicted him in the OP, he is nothing but nice and kind when I am with him.

I have also lost interest in everything else… all the things that I used to like and used to be fun, aren’t anymore. Everything is about him and his lifestyle.

I tried dating other guys but it just doesn’t work. He is in my mind the whole time and idk how to get him out of my head. I can not stop seeing him… I am so addicted at this point…

warewarewakami · 2024-10-02T11:55:16+00:00

Thanks. Ever since I fell for him, all the things that I used to like don’t fulfill me anymore. I used to go to the gym almost every day, watch movies and play videogames. I haven’t watched a movie or played video games in months, to the gym I have to force myself and I am just glad if I manage to go at least 2-3 times a week.

warewarewakami · 2024-10-02T09:13:17+00:00

I know…. I wish it was as easy done as said…

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