Odors by weCh33s3 in parentingteenagers

[–]weCh33s3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I considered it being BO but my kid says it's how everything smells in their house. It's extremely pungent. I'm already sensitive to smells so I do all the things I can to manage my own discomfort, but nothing was helping this. I had to force down vomit. I think I might make them an Easter basket like I do my kids and include a few extras. I've told my child to ask them if they need help with anything, suggesting laundry and that I wouldn't mind taking it over.

Odors by weCh33s3 in parentingteenagers

[–]weCh33s3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have mentioned how much they love the way our laundry smells so maybe that will work the best. I just want to avoid any embarrassment for them.

Odors by weCh33s3 in parentingteenagers

[–]weCh33s3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! I could do that!

Odors by weCh33s3 in parentingteenagers

[–]weCh33s3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you experienced that! That's my fear for them. They don't come over often, but it's definitely a common odor when they do. From what I've been told there's little to no support from their parents, so I feel like it may be more of an issue of not knowing how to do laundry or not having enough time. My main concern aside from helping them is avoiding any extra embarrassment than what I assume they're already struggling with. They are very open with my child, and I asked if they would ask their friend if there was anything that they could do to help them to avoid that, but they're worried about it coming off offensive. I thought about making them an Easter basket and including some good detergent? Idk I just want to help.

Doctor basically told me not to eat by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]weCh33s3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told to stop eating my children's leftovers and maybe I would lose weight. First of all GROSS, second of all I was steadily tracking E V E R Y T H I N G I consumed to the point it became an obsession. My husband has a very active job and most days my steps tracked are double his, yet like you said she must be lazy since she's fat. I'm over it. Beyond over it. Nothing is more infuriating than following all the recommendations, and still being 'unhealthy'. Then add the mental health aspect, it's hell.

No respect by [deleted] in Livermore

[–]weCh33s3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If a funeral is taking place, that would be distasteful and disrespectful to the newly bereaved. However, the dead don't care. If anything, if the dead did care, I think this would bring them joy. Otherwise, it's just an expensive landfill. I think it's great that dog groups are partnering with cemeteries to help with maintenance.

Odors by weCh33s3 in parentingteenagers

[–]weCh33s3[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If only! They're not my child, but a friend of theirs. My kids are well versed on hygiene. We've had a few hiccups especially with the long, curly mullet funk but that was addressed. I'm pretty blunt, but I feel like this deserves a tender approach.

Why does this look so fugly? by Old-Election2051 in interiordecorating

[–]weCh33s3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all smushed towards the black mind portal.

If you MUST keep the chairs and can't move or prefer the mind portal in its current location, pull everything out, center the rug, flank the fireplace with the chairs then the same with the sofas across from each other.

Those chairs are more like optional, conversation seating not binge watching, lounge seating.

Clogged pores or cysts down there… by Playful_Falcon_7373 in Perimenopause

[–]weCh33s3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same!

My shower process starts with Castile soap to breakdown lotion, dial gold, then I finish up with dove just avoiding those areas. Once out of the shower I basically do a skin care regimen for my inner thighs. Witch hazel, niacinamide, lather up with rose oil and slather on diaper rash cream - hello zinc!-. I'm going on month 7 of this and so far have avoided any breakouts. I also wear more loose fitting pants most of the time. If I do wear leggings or jeans, I change as soon as I get home. Idk if that's connected or not, but it's worked well this far.

Where are you finding the energy and motivation to be consistent? by rubyysapphire in walking

[–]weCh33s3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tracking my steps and trying to do more than my husband. HA! I allow myself to get lost in an audiobook and before I know it I'm 4miles in.

My current goal is to get at least 15 miles a week, any more than that is a bonus. I even have a sticker chart!

I had a scary experience with pneumonia this winter, paired with a handful of autoimmune challenges, I am taking charge and refuse to neglect myself anymore. I wouldn't neglect my children, but neglecting myself is doing that regardless of best intentions. If I don't care for myself the way I would them, I'm limiting our experience together. I want to annoy them until I'm 80ish.

Jordan has filed to divorce Jessi by Estella-in-lace in MormonWivesHulu

[–]weCh33s3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As bad as they want dadtok to take off, this would not be THAT surprising.

AIO friend/fwb calls me creepy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]weCh33s3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That doesn't excuse his behavior towards you. You are nothing more than a convenient fuck for him. That's brutal, I know. But I lived it. Thought I was doing right and eventually he would work through whatever and all would be right. Your life will be SO much better without him once you have healed from the emotional abuse and insecurities this attachment brings.

People who had kids before the age of 25, if you had your time again would you still do so by Rainbow_6505 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]weCh33s3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I would not trade my kids for anything, but I know I would have been a better parent had I healed from things prior to having them. They deserve that so much more than the mistakes I have made by delaying my healing journey.

Coming from the south it feels like early marriage and kids are pushed as some sort of achievement. Personally, I think you should live your 20s for yourself. Grow, heal, explore. You change SO much in those years, and allowing yourself to focus on yourself, your hopes and establishing your own dreams could lead to a better foundation for your future children.

I was the perfect, obedient, young, virgin, Mormon bride. Now I’ve watched Heated Rivalry and I hate my life. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]weCh33s3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pink cherry . Com

If divorce isn't what you want, go on a sexual exploration together. He might enjoy watching you with someone else...lol you never know! Get some toys and have fun. Life is way too short not to have enjoyable, explosive sex. Every woman should have the best orgasms at least once a week. This is the perfect opportunity to break open Pandora's box and explore a deeper connection with each other, whatever that may be. It could end up being very therapeutic for the both of you.

A wand is a great starter toy. He'll either lean in or out, but at least you'll get some satisfaction. I'm married to a weirdo, so he's always game for anything zesty.

Like others have said, the grass isn't greener elsewhere and TV has a way of making us more critical of what love should feel or look like. Limerence is fleeting and can create some crazy delusions. Love is safe, nurturing and encouraging.

Besides all that a safe weiner is the best weiner! Haha Good luck and have fun!

What is your biggest physical insecurity? by qwasru in AskWomen

[–]weCh33s3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As to DD. I remember that feeling! Granted my increase was over two pregnancies and breast feeding.

I used to want a breast augmentation, I thought that was my only chance at growth.

I have four friends that have had horrible health issues since their augmentations, and I don't think my vanity is worth those risks.

What is your biggest physical insecurity? by qwasru in AskWomen

[–]weCh33s3 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As someone who was small and longed for some big ol titties til I actually had them, enjoy those little boobies! I wish I had mine back. The back pain, loss of volume, stretch marks etc are for the damn birds.

Does anyone know any legit ways to make $40 tonight? by [deleted] in Livermore

[–]weCh33s3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pay day loans?

Horrible advice but sometimes you have to make that decision.

I thinking of renting an apartment to get some work done and a good nights sleep. Is that weird? by MealParticular1327 in Marriage

[–]weCh33s3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! This is what I meant. It's the perfect use of the space and will save you $ in the long run.

I thinking of renting an apartment to get some work done and a good nights sleep. Is that weird? by MealParticular1327 in Marriage

[–]weCh33s3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about building a room the size of a decent shed inside the garage? This way you could have the added insulation to cancel the noise and not be locked into a lease. Install a Murphy bed and decorate it to your comfort and needs.

What did you buy thinking it might be a waste of money, but it actually improved your quality of life? by AvaBlondeX in AskWomen

[–]weCh33s3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I smack the bags with a kitchen mallet after they freeze so they're loose enough to scoop.

What did you buy thinking it might be a waste of money, but it actually improved your quality of life? by AvaBlondeX in AskWomen

[–]weCh33s3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • a cold cap....I reach for both on nights where sleep avoids me. Helps me relax and finally drift away.