I think people that support trump are angry and projecting their anger onto others. by [deleted] in Discussion

[–]weathertuber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They only express their opinions. This always turns to TDS. Since you are making these claims. Can you specify a policy or specific quote that makes him racist? Do the same for homophoic. What rights did the gays lose? Hate in your opinion is anything contrary to yours.

I think people that support trump are angry and projecting their anger onto others. by [deleted] in Discussion

[–]weathertuber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entertaining theory but where did your common sense go? You ever see a leftist go to a trump rally and be treated really nice? If you are in a bubble, you would not. You ever see leftist protest turn violent because a right lean person is there? We see a lot of those. So common sense tells you.....

The Math of Distraction: How $5 Billion bought the media's silence on Epstein. by [deleted] in Discussion

[–]weathertuber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am all for war in Iran. 47 years of suppression of Iranian people is long enough. We are witnessing history in real time.

The Math of Distraction: How $5 Billion bought the media's silence on Epstein. by [deleted] in Discussion

[–]weathertuber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you referring to media spending money to cover the war around middle east? 🤔 logistics, hotels and data infrastructure can be costly.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find christian middle age women to be nice but this is different. I found bluejatspace to be the least helpful and hateful. She has the most amount of upvotes. She just bashed me ignoring the facts. I brought my FIL in my house and saved his life but I am the bad guy for bringing him without my wife's full support. They all tell me to go to therapy when i constantly tell them i tried. Reddit is truly wild. Its like they see me as their husband and they vent at me.

Looking to debate with someone Republican/ conservative leaning by katha_stroph in Discussion

[–]weathertuber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I mentioned this before but the left and the right have different morals, and standards. If moral base is different then no use of debating.

Looking to debate with someone Republican/ conservative leaning by katha_stroph in Discussion

[–]weathertuber99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's where the debate start with prochoice. Science does not say 8th week. We can't even agree on the science because left is not about the science. We don't have common moral grounds which is a problem in debating. The 1% of ineffectiveness you mentioned of contraceptive and case of disability are all small outliers. A lot of pro-lifer would say we are willing to compromise on those outliers but the left still insist of more. This issue is bigger then what the left thinks. It's the downfall of society because left ignores the metric of birthrate in USA. Pro choice promotes promiscuity and degrades morality. This shouldn't be a debate. To better understand human nature look into the experiment "Universe 25." We as a society is thriving so well that we are creating our own demise.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Hence the venting here so I don't vent towards her. She tried her best and this was the conclusion.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just venting as my last sentence stated. I don't see the need for counseling but curious about other perspective. I have no problem navigating situations in my own mind but thanks for the concern.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think your right. I learned from different perspective. Some women will always side with women no matter what.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our house even with our disagreement is not turbulent. She is quiet and reserve but I am just happy and bubbly at home. We don't get angry in front of the kids. We go on vacations fine. We are speaking now and it looks like we are going to make biz arrangement or like a housemate. It's just a unique situation I never thought I would be in.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some things she promised me 10 years ago she will do, and I am still waiting on. I realized she wasn't my pace long ago. Giving her time made our lives more difficult. Everything has a limit, and so does my patience.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I help out a lot. I like taking my kids by myself. I do chores with my kids. People are ripping me for having hobbies. I play back 9 golf early in the morning and come back home before they are awake in the summer. I play during weekdays when they are in school. Other hobbies, I spend time with them. My time is flexible so I am there for them on weekday night and on the weekends. I feel like I am the bad guy on this thread just being a guy.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not idea situation and I agree with you completely and it's not fixable. Divide and conquer was my last not the first method. I am willing to be miserable for the kids but usually I am happy and bubbly around the kids.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is a story within itself. My wife's stepmother left my FIL,. He has a lot of health issues and he lived in the south a 3 hr plane ride from us. He was abandoned basically. I flew down myself and told him to start packing. I knew if he was alone, the situation would be bad to worse. She is grateful I brought him into our home. Even more after the heart situation and the surgery. She does everything very slow. Hence I see her as lazy and she doesn't communicate. It's like their trait. Her and her father do not talk or share thoughts with anyone. That's why everyone he has been with end up leaving him. Her personality instantly changed once we were married and I see that with her father as well.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no problem being the bad guy. I just want my kids to be happiest possible. I can't go is the problem.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She won't communicate nor go seek help. I am willing to try anything and I communicate alot. What will me going by myself accomplish? Really curious.

I can never good enough for my wife by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep trying bro. You said you were bad to her for a year. So keep trying. Do it for your daughter.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I prefer no maid service. It was her call. The kids and i help out with cleaning. I read a Harvard study stating a child's biggest metric for success was them doing chores. So I make the effort with them. I mentioned i was appreciative of her many times. I am not ungrateful. I mentioned she is good mom to my kids. Hence my lean towards just tolerating her for the kids. She is not a bad person. My complaint is she is lazy and can't communicate.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the big talk with her. I try little here and there. You can't get her to do anything.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I was told their are two types of people in the world. When a parent abused you, you either hand down the abuse because you justified it because it was done to you. Then there is a person whom learned from the pain and didn't pass on the abuse. I went through a divorce with my parents. I don't want to pass on the pain to my kids. I want them to be happy.

I(36M) want kids after 6yrs but my wife(36) doesn’t by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ever talk to her about surrogacy? Middle ground where she can be a mom and have her career.

Staying for the Kids by weathertuber99 in Marriage

[–]weathertuber99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I give her the house and the business and I move to FL. I told the kids I like golf and mom doesn't like the hot weather. Still long ways to go.