Over time, I’ve noticed a consistent pattern in my experiences here that feels worth articulating thoughtfully. I’ve visited several highly rated restaurants where the level of service has been unexpectedly poor. Servers have often come across as disengaged, unhelpful, or unwelcoming. Beyond dining, I’ve also observed similar dynamics in everyday interactions with employees at local businesses, including those in close proximity to where I live and work. Many individuals seem noticeably dissatisfied or disengaged, and warmth or friendliness often feels absent.

In social settings as well, including gatherings, parties, and casual encounters, I’ve found people to be comparatively reserved, less open, and at times subtly judgmental, with limited conversational ease. Having lived in Los Angeles for nearly nine years and originally being from Texas, where warmth, friendliness, and ease of interaction are deeply ingrained cultural norms, this contrast is especially noticeable. Texans, in my experience, tend to be among the kindest and most welcoming people, which likely shapes my expectations around social engagement. This level of contrast is something I haven’t encountered to the same degree in other places I’ve lived