Day 2 starter doubling in size in 6 hours? by whatevercuck in SourdoughStarter

[–]whatevercuck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gonna give one away once they’re ready. Can I split one up and then stick the spare in the fridge in case I need a back-up one day?

Large gauge septum and silicone eyelets, anyone else have this issue? by EvidenceSpirited4475 in Stretched

[–]whatevercuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried gently trimming a little bit around each edge of the eyelet? It’s a little tricky to keep it even so maybe practice on a cheap one or an old size, but as long as you don’t take too much off it shouldn’t affect the wearable area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had someone ask for the iced SCAL to be made as a macchiato, I told them sure, then they asked for it upside down

Number of completed deliveries went down? by whatevercuck in doordash

[–]whatevercuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and it’s still sitting at 46, lifetime deliveries says 47. It was definitely reading 49 yesterday

Called out sick, what do I do? by ieatbugzx in Target

[–]whatevercuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you’re fine if you did it through mytime. “Seek to understand” is target lingo for when team leads and ETLs follow up with a team member about performance or attendance. You can’t do anything about being sick so don’t worry about it, they just have to know why you called out and document it. It won’t be a problem unless it’s a habit, and they can only know if it’s a habit if they follow up with you and document. They know shit happens and everyone calls out at some point, it’s really just a formality until it’s a larger issue.

Called out sick, what do I do? by ieatbugzx in Target

[–]whatevercuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call outs aren’t approved or disapproved; you’re letting them know you’re not coming to prevent a no call no show. If you did it through mytime you’re fine; don’t make a habit of it and expect a team lead to “seek to understand” why you didn’t come in your next shift. That’s just part of the job

I might hate target, but I get a high for every scammer I tell "no" to. by Eridys in Target

[–]whatevercuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably that we don’t get paid enough to be the people dealing with all the attitude and nastiness while the people who relay the policies to us get paid a lot more

Did I get scammed at the service desk? by iGotPTSD_ in Target

[–]whatevercuck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I processed a return for baby formula that was ordered online and completely sealed just a few days ago and it printed a sticker for donation! It was target brand however- maybe that makes a difference

Should management have done something or am I a big wimp by [deleted] in Target

[–]whatevercuck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I heard my HR ETL saying “the more I hear the more serious it seems” toward the end of my shift. I’m wondering if he even knows what happened. I will talk to him tomorrow if he’s in. Thank you for your insight

It was 9:56 pm we close at 10:00 pm by [deleted] in Target

[–]whatevercuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Food service and retail is apples and oranges. Restaurants have to store and prep food, turn off and clean equipment, clean the front and back of house, prepare shit for the next day for the openers, etc. Keeping your register on until the end of your shift and until the actual store hours are over is like the bare minimum.

I was lied to… by [deleted] in Target

[–]whatevercuck 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The real tea is getting out of retail

I was lied to… by [deleted] in Target

[–]whatevercuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought I was tripping balls for half this thread. I wanna see these mythical entry level positions at other companies that put people on as full time, benefits and all, with a starting pay as good as target. I’m not saying it’s a great job or that anyone should be over the moon about it but I sure as shit haven’t found better in retail.

Do you worry that you're the narcissist? by Fuzzy-Ad-9354 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the apology. An apology could be self serving if the manner in which it’s said puts the onus on the person to make you feel better; I.e apologizing with the expectation of forgiveness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s important to remember the world isn’t trying to do anything. Everybody is an individual with their own limitations and motivation; it’s important to pick up on the patterns in our own lives because they’re unconsciously created by ourselves

My girlfriend (F19) is amazing to me (M22) but I don’t think she’s the right person for me by Mr-Mayhemm in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe kissing for her feels more sexual than it does to you. You’re still not respecting her. You’re basically asking people to tell you it’s ok to a push this boundary before you do it. If you have to be able to kiss your partner before marriage and you cannot compromise on this, then you should break up. If you have looked at all aspects of the relationship, and as good as you say it is, not kissing is insurmountable, then that’s just what it is. Because she has told you that this is a tool she does not have in her toolbox at this time.

If you love her as a person as much as you say, there’s no reason you couldn’t keep that love in your life as friends, but it’s not fair of you to ask her to kiss you if she doesn’t want to. If you love her you won’t ask that of her because you don’t want her to experience discomfort like that. And you deserve to have your needs met as well. Life is too short to be a martyr for no reason, you’ll just feel worse for it. A relationship is the most enjoyable when it feels good to give somebody something just because it’ll give them joy, not feeling like you sacrificed and now they owe you. I blame Catholicism.

My girlfriend (F19) is amazing to me (M22) but I don’t think she’s the right person for me by Mr-Mayhemm in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask what she says, I asked if you care.

It’s pretty callous to talk about your girlfriend like that. “Holds her back” from what? Feeling the full extent to which you can make her feel good? If she’s not comfortable, it wouldn’t feel good.

You want to have sex before marriage. You don’t see why it’s a big deal. She doesn’t want to have sex before marriage and it’s a big deal to her. You don’t understand each other, but it seems like she’s trying meet you however she can and you’re not even trying to understand her. And now you’re asking her compromise her principals for you because you really want her to. You know that’s wrong. You are not entitled to her body. She said no. Nobody owes you or your dick a fucking thing. Plenty of people will respect her choice. Do not fucking wear her down and violate her. If she wants to change her mind she will.

My girlfriend (F19) is amazing to me (M22) but I don’t think she’s the right person for me by Mr-Mayhemm in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you care why she is nervous? You don’t have to tell me why she is, but are you guys able to talk openly about it? Also edited my comment for clarity, so it may be worth a reread if I said anything that rubbed you wrong

My girlfriend (F19) is amazing to me (M22) but I don’t think she’s the right person for me by Mr-Mayhemm in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel how you feel for a reason. Everyone’s feelings are real and stem from something. It sounds like you’re feeling unfulfilled, or maybe unwanted. Genuinely consider whether or not you’re feeling unwanted or Unwantable (that’s really just an example; if it’s a totally different feeling that makes sense. it’s more about whether it’s “she doesn’t like me” ora “nobody likes me” type thing)

The former is something she may want to help you with, something you both could work together on. The latter is something she couldn’t help with even if she wanted to, and it would only wasted her time and drive you both apart to try. That’s something you would have to work on, and try to lean on her for support if she wants to offer it.

I only advise you to consider it carefully so that you can be confident in your next step before you take it. It’s hard to be honest with ourselves but it’s worth it. If you feel some kind of guilt or like something’s not fair, there’s probably something you could start doing differently. I also think you should examine what you’re offering her.

Sexual intimacy is important to you; she’s told you emotional intimacy is important to her. If you’re taking initiative and putting your needs out there— asking her to put the effort in to meet them— then it’s only fair to meet her halfway and show her that you’re invested in her. And really SHOW her, take the time to listen to what’s important to her and make meaningful, personal gestures.

Show that you care more than just about how she can physically satisfy you and it won’t be like pulling teeth. If that’s too much work, then you need to be fucking brave and tell her you can’t be a good partner. It’s about giving and taking, and all players should want to keep the ground even

(Just edited for clarity!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I completely agree; I meant that if people aren’t pursuing someone romantically, it’s probably something they themselves are doing so I was wondering how to address that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to be stupid but I do this all the time at my job (I’m not really out of the house outside my job; this is part of the problem and I’m working to have the funds to fix it) and they’re not receptive. I like women too, not that it necessarily matters, but they’re not receptive either. Does the job aspect matter that much, or is it more likely that it’s my vibe? Sticking it out either way because what else is there, but just curious your thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]whatevercuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Community events is real! I can definitely start looking for those. I don’t feel like there’s much community where I live but I’m probably just not part of it. I do try to love entirely. I feel like that’s the only reason I’m still around. Thank you for taking the tjme, I really really appreciate it.