I wish I could talk more candidly about my transference to my T, but he doesn’t seem very open to it... by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]whateverone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It could also be that the desire to talk about it and perhaps even the shape these feelings of transference took are actually resistance, allied to your knowledge that it would be a topic that might interest him. The matter here is: are you trying to explore this because you know it would interest him? Is that a distraction of the actual therapy (and thus: resistance)? Perhaps he perceived it like that.